it is interesting, for some reason, most homosexuality is compared to the Shoe size, rather than, for example, with the size of collar the shirt has. Obviously, this still has some subconscious dissatisfaction with himself - than below - so unobtrusively. Meanwhile, in my opinion, there is a value in everything, and in colour and in height, and Shoe size, and ... homosexuality.
Just it is necessary to perceive adequately, to be able to enjoy yourself, to be able to be yourself and accept what it is.
The phrase, of course, banal, trite, but, alas, has not lost relevance, because in our wonderful society won not communism, not capitalism, not of idiocy, to be yourself is still a big luxury. Have to pay for it. And not always money. In this case, deliverance from the cocoon of soothing plants that we are all the same (usually in small print adds: "no, there is a difference, but only as between specific people").
And some, especially advanced, I add about heterosexuals who need to understand that we are the same as they are when they understand this remarkable fact, realize that they have nothing to fear, then the gays will start is good - aerobatics imaginary tolerance.
This is the category of the mass debaters claiming that there is no such thing as gay culture (LGBT culture, queer culture, etc. - words reflecting the same). They say that the gay culture there, because the culture (or subculture) has its common features, and we have in common. We are all the same and different only as individuals.
The confusion has been the lack of a clear definition. Define subculture as a system of norms and values that distinguish the group from most companies. They say a subculture defines ideology. I would say that subculture defines a single vector, a single community, opposing views and the aspirations of the majority and not necessarily ideology. In our case it is homosexuality that distinguishes us from the majority, but in States with a strong homophobic policies, it becomes a counterculture. What is this vector? Yes, in fact, what we prefer to see their sexual partner, with whom we enjoy spending time in our views that are configured on the perception of completely different than that of heterosexuals images, our aesthetic preferences. From this vector, like ripples spreading investigation of our personal psychology.
And it all starts in adolescence, when we are experiencing a stage of self-acceptance, sometimes with a lot of blood, sometimes more relaxed when realization of his otherness does not make us happy when we have to keep back about his parents, friends, others. When we understand that we can't live openly, trying to protect themselves from the pressure of the outdated so-called social norms of behavior. And many of us give up their dreams, because they understand - they do not have the strength to implement them. Although there are those who find the strength to come out and it is also a trait that defines us as a subculture.
It is not necessary to treat this concept is too simple. It is not necessary to compare us with emo or goth kids and to say that once they go in the same clothes, and we gay all completely have to wear the same pink blouse, but otherwise we have nothing in common. Too simple approach. And emo and Goths, and any other representatives of any subculture is not so similar to each other, as it is commonly present. There are also a variety of people. I'm not talking about that gay culture, probably the oldest sub-culture in the world develops according to its own laws, is so old that is not like any other. That will take fifty years - let's see what will be emo or goth.
Returning to the notorious plumbers have to say that plumbers don't go to clubs or coffee shops to plumbers, they have no specialized saunas, beaches, shops and their quite specific Internet site. I'm not saying that they are not engaged with each other having sex and not trying to have a family and children that would agree, pretty funny.
Yes, there are differences, but they are only in sexuality, but otherwise we are still the same like heterosexuals. And then I will not argue. Because it is small "only" is almost the most important root of your inner self. Stay the same, if you prefer, if you prefer. But somehow you come who is on the gay forums, who are in the gay clubs, and other themed virtual or real places for gays. Why? And here we go back to sublimation. In terms of the realities of our society, intolerant belonging to the manifestations of homosexuality, each of us still wants to realize itself, for it is rooted deep in each of us, as a program of the gay subculture. When there is no possibility to implement it, the subconscious mind finds other ways.
Someone is trying to fill that void, coming on the gay forums, someone wrote literary works on gay themes, and someone organizes a protest in front of the government building of Moscow. But all together this is also called the sublimation of homosexuality, his ways, that we are not allowed to pass by shutting and rejecting of public institutions. In many ways, this sublimation - the flip side of our internal homophobia.
Hello everyone, my dear guests and readers of this site and this post in particular. I myself sometimes read news that is happening in the world, but more often than not I do not do it, sometimes I do not like what I find out, especially not always the information will be true. Just about this news, what you wrote, man, I did not know. But I could say that media often attributed to something that is not))) At one time they wrote about me differently, but even if I'm gay, it's all the same to me that others will talk about me, because for the media just give an excuse ... and they will come up with this!))))
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