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Morningstar
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Joined: 10/09/2016 - 17:34
wanna detach?

When a situation becomes too much for you to handle, you might need to detach from it emotionally. Emotional detachment is not recommended as a means of running away from your problems or weathering abuse. It should not be used as a weapon against others or as a substitute for communication. However, if you are going through a tough moment within a relationship, temporary detachment can help you calm down and put your issues into perspective. Similarly, detaching during a confrontation can help you keep your cool. Lastly, if you have ended a partnership, you will need to detach gradually and for good. Detach is my favourite way of behaving when I am not agree with something. It happens naturaly but still i am ok with it. What about you guys?

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Samuel
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Joined: 09/28/2016 - 09:10
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In my opinion, emotional and moral detachment is not the best solution, when you don't agree with somebody, or with something in your everyday life. When you try to detach from something, then you try to hide yourself, or something that you want to say, but can't because of outside impact on you.

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YourHubby
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wanna detach?

Well if you are stressed about any situation..Recognize moments that can easily escalate. If you notice you are constantly getting in fights in a certain mood or when certain things are said, detach before you get angry. To do this, recognize the triggers and prepare for moments in which they may appear. Go back over past confrontations and isolate the things that really made you angry, or really made the other person angry.You might notice that your partner always picks a fight when he is stressed about work. On stressful workdays, you can prepare to detach ahead of time by reminding yourself that she or he may be in a bad mood later.

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HappyDaddy
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If you are trying to detach from anything - check in on your boundaries. Boundaries are the restrictions you set to protect yourself. You have emotional, mental, physical, and sexual boundaries. They can be learned from parents as you grow up, or you can acquire them by hanging around people who have their own set of healthy boundaries. If you are having trouble managing your time, habits, or your emotions, you may have poor boundaries.If you feel overwhelmed by the feelings of others, or feel that your self-image comes entirely from other people, you need to attend to your boundaries.If you often say "yes" to things you don't want to do, set boundaries.Pay attention to your senses. Do you feel something is wrong? Do you have an unpleasant sense in your stomach or chest? This may indicate that a boundary wants to be asserted.

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Morningstar
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Joined: 10/09/2016 - 17:34
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Detachment is what we all need from time to time,no matter what's the issue.Either it's too much workat the office or some problems at house-you just have to do it,cause if you won't,it might just tear you apart some day.Just like a computer needs a restart-the same way we need to let our brains chill for a minute and do something else.And you have to stop thinking about no matter what is your issue at all-in order to get a full effect of detachment,you know? ;) Go see a striptease or something,go for a walk,listen to some good music-every way is good,so choose yours. ;)

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Valeos
Last seen: 2 weeks 5 days ago
Joined: 11/23/2017 - 11:52
wanna detach?

Hello everybody. I do not know how you are, but I'm used to solving problems in my life, and not to run away from them or be detached from them. Because it will always be easier than solving the current life situation. As for me, I am not afraid of difficulties, and I am used to overcoming them no matter what. This will make me stronger and no longer vulnerable. You can stand on the sidelines, and most certainly do, but not me) So parents raised me plus I worked on my personality)))

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