One more important thing you should mention bringing up a child is his or her education. It does not mean that you should choose a university for a child who even does not attend the school. It is unnecessary. I mean that you should understand how to teach your child to count, to read, to write, to differ shapes and colours. Nobody will do it instead of you, the intellectual development of your child is in your hands. Don't worry, you are not the first and not even 100001st father who deals with it, that is why there are many books and articles devoted to this theme
Nothing can teach you better how to raise a child except your personal experience. Of course, nowadays there are many books how to give children good upbringing and care, but I suppose that they will not help you entirely. Everything comes with experience, it is the greatest teacher. Do not be afraid that something may go wrong or uncorrect from your personal point of view, it is life, nobody is ensured of success. Try to talk with your partner and create your parents' conception of raising a child, it will not only help you to cope with the difficulties you will help, but to know each other better.
You are a beautiful person and I am happy for you to decide to adopt a child.
I don't have children now and I think I'm not ready to become a father. And I agree with guys. You can't find enough information in books to raise a child. It is very difficult. You can't prepare for it beforehand. You will be able to become the best parent with the lapse of time. But if you have difficulty in any situation you may always use Internet for help. Don't be afraid. I wish you good luck.
i think that you definitely have to be prepared to the child because it is very serious step in your life.first of all you should show yourself as strict person but not too much. you have to be friends with your child. then he will tell you everything about his life and you could give him advice so that he can avoid making some mistakes. be responsible and always ready to help. never let you child give up or worry about something. teach him everything and then you will be the best father.
I don't believe in such literature,of course it may study you how to do this or that , but it is not able to develop parental feelings, that should be in you, if you really want to be a good parent for your child. Practice will give you everything that you really need. Don't be afraid, everything will be fine anyway.
I finished reading Masaru Ibuka "After three too late".
I support the idea that in a wind age, the child has much. Interest is a great incentive. Never made a perfect order, hiding the child from people trying to get out into society and take it with you. Do not share toys and events for "kids" and "it's still early", within reason, of course. It is important for me to grow confident man, ready for a change (I call it flexibility) and open to communication.
Look,man,first and foremost,it has to be all in you,if you truly want to have a kid-you have to be ready for that in every which way possible.Are you sure about this step?Do you have all the required qualities in you or your partner-patience,strength,loyalty,calmness and overall love.You have to always be there for your child,to support and understand him always,in every situation,no matter what.If you ain't got all of that in you-no books will help you to develop all that.Maybe,with some time,but you have to truly feel the need and self-ability to deal with kid's everyday's problems and issues.
When you adopt a child you must be ready that your adopted child will want to talk about their adoption and parents should encourage this process. Several excellent children's story books are available in bookstores and libraries which can help parents tell the child about being adopted. Children have a variety of responses to the knowledge that they are adopted. Their feelings and responses depend on their age and level of maturity. The child may deny the adoption or create fantasies about it. Frequently, adopted children hold onto beliefs that they were given away for being bad or may believe that they were kidnapped. If the parents talk openly about the adoption and present it in a positive manner, these worries are less likely to develop.
Important procedure, requires certain skills – swaddling the baby. Some modern parents refuse swaddling, considering this procedure useless. However, experts recommend the practice of so-called "free packs" at least in the first weeks of life, so baby is not bothered of their own sudden movements. To master the technique of swaddling yourself by examining the instructions in the Internet and books. As "experimental" you can use a large doll. Details about swaddling and other nuances you can learn and courses to prospective parents, where you can at least together with your partner. These courses will not only gain new knowledge, but also psychologically prepared for the upcoming changes in their family. :ohmy:
In my opinion you definitely have to be prepared to the child because it is very serious step in your life.first of all you should show yourself as strict person but not too much. you have to be friends with your child.
then he will tell you everything about his life and you could give him advice so that he can avoid making some mistakes. be responsible and always ready to help. never let you child give up or worry about something. teach him everything and then you will be the best father.
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