Unpredictable X-factor: one morning the man wakes up and realizes that he no longer has feelings of love, or whether it is faced with a new romantic interest. Career plans and new features in this case are only those that separates people in different cities and countries, those people who are nearby, it has long been estranged from each other. Many long-distance relationship to an end, because the world continues to turn, but fortunately for those whose relationship is such a plan cease to exist, life goes on, and for such people. I think that something like this could happen to you very soon. Your relationship with this guy is doomed. And you must understand it.
The modern pace of life and communication dictates the rules, changing social norms. Until a few centuries ago, the young couple picked elders of the clan, looking after anywhere close to good families, thoroughly learning about the chosen one, and beloved as much as possible, and only then talk about a possible marriage. Today, one in eight of steam creates a long-distance relationship. However, whether or not despair, if chosen, for whatever reason, may not be around for a long time, whether such a relationship will lead to something more, and whether to keep them for a long time perhaps? In addition, I see that it is quite serious problems for your relationship. And I just do not see any reason to continue them ...
The main advantage of such relations is freedom. It is no secret that the main enemy of romance and love relationships - life with his daily chores and trifles. This are lovers separated by kilometers, so there is no problem. They share feelings, emotions, affection, but they retain the ability to engage in hobbies, passions, can travel, communicate with friends or friends, build a career, and so on. They may engage in self-expression, feeling of loneliness, being in the pair - but free. On the other hand, this is not true for everyone, for some kind of freedom is not a plus, but on the contrary, negative. In your case, it's much worse. Krrome that your partner is trying to limit you in all things. Why are you still put up with these things?
Whatever it was, at a distance relationship can be a daunting challenge for both partners. The duality of the situation, in which the pair of you seem to have, but next to you - no one can lead to stress and depression, if a person will not be able in time to prioritize. Discomfort from such relationships, especially if they are parting delayed for a long or indefinite period of time, one of the partners or both unwittingly begin to experience a sense of loneliness, abandonment, and this is a direct way to find a new partner. I think that you should not suffer from it all. Try to find someone who will make you happy in your town.
I know some things that can help. It is desirable as closely as possible to determine the period of separation. Arrival date, estimated time, help the partner who has to wait, to accept the separation and move it a lot easier. After all, nothing is as disorienting as the uncertainty. Daily conversations. Even if a full-fledged, long telephone conversation neither the strength nor the time, it is good enough to compensate for a warm letter by e-mail or a gentle message that your partner will feel needed and important. You have to help your partner continue to feel your warmth, even after thousands of kilometers. Then you will not have such problems.
It is necessary to give the partner a feeling of love and intimacy, but often repeating the recognition and melancholy revelation can achieve the opposite result. It is much more important to talk with your loved one about what is happening in your life every day, new developments, experiences and thoughts. Such talk does not get bored, and declarations of love in the context of what is happening will seem more significant and more important. It is important to remember that no matter what problems a couple faces, they do not blame the distance, and the people themselves. A little more attention and understanding your loved one, a little more time spent talking about what is important to him.
There are times when love is tested by time and distance. Many people are afraid of the imposed stereotype that long-distance relationship can not be saved. But in practice, everything is different: a happy outcome depends on you both. The desire to keep the connection must come from the lovers. If one partner does not want to support it, you just need to let him go, wishing happiness. After all, most likely, this means that he has no feelings, no desire to fight for love. If you are really two halves of a whole, you will be able to support each other in any situation and solve any problem, especially if it affects the happiness of two of you.
If you are experiencing a crisis of love, or are confused and do not know where to go, because physically favorite far, I recommend you listen to the advice. Try to constantly talk to each other about the events that happen in your life. If there was resentment or misunderstanding, it is better to talk about it right away. Beloved person has to know about your experiences and should be able to understand and support you. Do every day and talk about how you are to each other roads. For loved ones do not need to feel sorry for the pleasant and warm words. All these things will help you to find at least something that will strengthen your relationship from a distance.
Hello my dear friends. For me personally, love is not acceptable at a distance, precisely for that reason as you do. But only I myself am not jealous, and I always try to trust my partner, but he, in turn, can create a problem from scratch, this is unbalancing me. And who has a stormy fantasy, he can imagine such things as you never dreamed of))) I prefer real relationships, otherwise, although it was difficult, I ended such relationships that could become relationships at a distance.
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