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YourHubby
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loneliness

what do you do when you feel totally lonely. when the world stops for and does not exist at all. what do you do when none of close friends, relatives stop existing for you. what do you do when you stop existing for yourself? when you are totally apathetic? we all have such moment in our lives from time to time. in the recent days i started to have such kind of days more often. i fee that i am lonely and that loneliness eats me from inside. i do not have anybody to share my thoughts with. i mean i have friends but i am such a person which is closed for his friends even. they do not understand me...what do you do in such situation?

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Johnny
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loneliness

That is very sad that you do not have such close person whom you can share your thoughts and troubles with....But i want to tell you that we are all here just for you and you can tell us everything that is worring you! I am sure none of people here will refuse to help you and give you some advice. So, please, do not feel loneliness.
As for me, when i feek lonely, i try to do something that gives me pleasure, for example, i read a book or watch funny movie or visit my relatives.
Try to find your own way "to fight" loneliness and learn how to get pleasure from being together with yourself :P :whistle:

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Samuel
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Yeah, this feeling is very familiar to me, and to be honest such days occur in my life very often, maybe because I am a little bit depressed person, but still it is so, and sometimes it's very difficult for me to cope with that bad mood, bad emotions, and feelings in my soul. There are different ways how to get rid of this terrible period in our life, but everything depends on each of us. There are cases, when I feel myself in a horrible way, but then one person may make me laugh, or make me smile, and actually it is enough to change thoughts in my head. Guys, everything depends on you, and on your thoughts, everything in your mind. try to control it.

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deril
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this feeling same with me, too. loneliness is bad thing, for my opinion. Loneliness equally affects the longevity of men and women, as well as Smoking. It is unclear why the loneliness is so detrimental to health. But it is assumed that single men tend to lead less healthy lifestyles. They drink more, because more often found with large groups of friends; they miss a meal, e.g. Breakfast, and more work, because they don't have a partner, who would like to spend more time. And they do not have "attorney", which could pour out his soul. :dry:

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YourHubby
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Every now and then I think every one of us gets that feeling of loneliness-some harder,some lesser.It's a normal thing for every one of us to be alone from time to time,in order to gather your thoughts,to wonder about something important and wishful in your life.But if it's over the top-surely it'll give you a feeling of deep discomfort with your life.You definitely suppose to do something about it,or it just might eat you alive.Call up your friends,go out somewhere,pick up some nice man to spend time with,go on a journey somewhere-in other words,make yourself an adventure to live through. B)

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Morningstar
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I know what you feel. The worst feeling ever! To deal with it - first -identify the reasons why you feel lonely. In order to make changes that will truly help you, you will need to take some time to figure out why you are feeling lonely. For example, say you assume that you are lonely because you don’t have enough friends and you go out and make more friends. You may still feel lonely after making new friends if your loneliness is the result of having too many friends and a lack of meaningful connections. It is very important. Start with this advice and then it will be a bit easier

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HappyDaddy
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Loneliness is an emotion, mostly triggered by a sad memory.2 Unfortunately the brain loves to overanalyze things, so even momentary loneliness can escalate to longer spells because of thoughts like “Why do I feel so alone?” and “Am I a loser no one loves?” When this happens, just acknowledge the feeling and don’t overreact. So when i was feeling too lonely i adopted a furry cat . You can try it too. It will cheer you up. The playfulness of pets, plus the troubles (and fun) you’ll experience while training them will make you forget about your troubles. Even a goldfish or pretty parrot can do wonders for your mood.

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YourHubby
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loneliness

As for me I know what you feel. The worst feeling ever! To deal with it - first -identify the reasons why you feel lonely. In order to make changes that will truly help you, you will need to take some time to figure out why you are feeling lonely.
For example, say you assume that you are lonely because you don’t have enough friends and you go out and make more friends. You may still feel lonely after making new friends if your loneliness is the result of having too many friends and a lack of meaningful connections. It is very important. Start with this advice and then it will be a bit easier .

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ElijahLil
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Joined: 09/28/2017 - 19:20
loneliness

There are so many things that you can do alone. Relax on the sofa with a nice or useful book. Reading is both useful and interesting. Remember now that you have long wanted to read, but everyone did not find the time. Cleaning in the house at a certain mood is a very interesting thing. Tell yourself that this is such a game "Clean the house of excess", turn on the pleasant music and proceed. It's time to switch from a loved one to others - look around and see that the flowers need your care, your cat misses you and the dog is dejected. Be engaged in social connections - swipe the notebook and think with whom you have not talked for a thousand years, but at the same time everyone, consider this person to be your friend. Dial it and surprise your joyful "Hello!"

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Stefan
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Joined: 09/29/2017 - 10:09
Loneliness

loneliness is terrible thing. Noone can hide from it. Each person has it in some period of his life. Sometime i have such feeling too. I don't want to eat, i don't want to sleep, i don't want to talk to anybody. I just want to exist. In such moment only sport can help me. It makes me feel free. Of course i can lock at home and just lay on my couch. But make myself do something to feel alive.

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Valeos
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Joined: 11/23/2017 - 11:52
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I greet you brothers)) Actually, your problem is very sad and reminds me of one period of my life. After my boyfriend left me with a baby, on the one hand it became easier for me, nobody oppressed me, my parents even supported me, but I was in a state of no avail for me. I did not know what to do and how to live on. I had many friends, but I felt lonely, I hired a governess for my son, went to the hall more often than was required. I tried to digress from reality. But then I was asleep, and started spending more time with my son, listening to good music, walking in the fresh air and rejoicing at every moment of my life. I was able to defeat myself. Do not despair, good luck.

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