Jelaosy is the sense of destructive. It is based on frustration, self-doubt, lack of confidence or the desire to take revenge on another person. The ratio of men to women is often accompanied by similar emotions. What does this mean? The fact that jealousy - a sign of the love of a man or a sign of his self-doubt? In most cases, any manifestation of feelings - detonating cocktail of several emotions. . The different kind of jelaosy interwoven with other negative emotions: resentment, anger, sadness, loneliness - pushes a person to commit acts that have often backfired.
I think it is normal because you got used that all attention and free time is given to you and now it is given to the child. Every normal man will feel jealousy. But with time normal man should understand that this is a child and it requires a lot of attention and time. It is impossible to leave it and pay attention to you.
I heard such situations. My good friend has got recently in the situation you described. He can’t understand why he is forgotten now. It seems for him that he is not loved by his partner any more. I try to explain him that he is not right. He doesn’t believe but think with time he will understand everything. It is not the reason to make the relationships worse.
i think that no person could feel jealously to his child. it is your child and you wont even think about it. you are now thinking about it because you do not have your own children. but when the child will appear everything will change. the center of your love , care and attentions will the child. and you will do it it together and will be very close to your child and to the partner. do not worry about it. of course there are parents who are jealous but i think that they are bad people.
I can't be sure whether jealousy to your own child is natural thing, or no, because I am not a father yet, and I am not a psychologist at such matters, but I may suppose that it may be, when one of the partners is a genuine egoist, who got used to extra attention, and love from his partner, and who doesn't want to share them with a child.
You do not have to jealous towards the children! They did nothing for that. Come to terms with who you are. Reflecting on your jealousy and working to make yourself a better person can go a long way in addressing your problem. Still, you have to understand that no matter what you do, you will never be perfect, and that there will always be things you want.Realize that life isn't fair. You won't be able to have everything you want, no matter how hard you try, and there may be people who are truly more fortunate than you are. But once you accept this fact, you can let go and stop trying to have it all.Enjoy being yourself. You may be a flawed individual like everyone else, but make time to enjoy your quirks and really learn to love being you. Make time for alone time, and really appreciate your own company.Focus on your positive qualities. Though there still may be a few things you lack, focus on the parts of your life that you love, such as your relationships, or your amazing job. Emphasize the things you have and love instead of thinking about the things you want.
I think that jealousy can destroy many relationships. Also, I'm sure you already knew that jealousy can be very different manifestations, even in relation to the child in the family. And this is really a terrible thing. Because the child does not suffer from his parents.
The child should receive the maximum care, love and affection that he needs to be happy in his identity holds. In addition, I also advise many of you try to remember your childhood sobtsvennoe and think about the things that you have and which you have been dreaming. You have to give it all for your child.
I'm already a father and all I can tell you-it all depends on the qualities of a man.You can simply see it from the beginning,if you've spent enough time together with a man-and you just have to,prior to making such a serious step.You have to truly know your man enough-what is he capable of,will he be a real help to you or not,and about jealousy you'll know practically from the start-when you just will be talking about it.It might occur later,but if you're both reasonable dudes-you'll get over it.In my family there's no place for the jealousy-we both wanted a baby so much,and now,as she is with us,we're unbelievably happy. :cheer:
All greetings. I have a child, but I did not face such a problem, because I raised my son alone and no one was jealous of me))) But in principle this is possible in other families, I heard about jealousy of the child. Very often, even) It seems to me that the most often jealous are those who are inclined to selfishness or he is the only child in the family who received all the attention. Just try to spend the same amount of time both with the child. And treat with understanding, it will pass.
I can understand some jealousy in relationships. In addition, I can also understand many other problems that we can get in the everyday life. But in any case I can never understand jealousy in relation to the child. Why should you be jealous?
This is your child in any way! Also, if you really wanted to become a father, why are you jealous now? Why can not you just divide this joy and positive emotions that you have become a father to your partner? Why do not you also enjoy your child and give him plenty of care and attention? I understand that your partner also should not forget about you. But you should not be jealous.
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