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YourHubby
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jealousy

What is jealousy for you? If we are talking about it - lets first make sure that we know what is actually jealousy is. Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, concern, and anxiety over an anticipated loss or status of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness and disgust. So what is healthy jealousy? I mean we all have those feeling so lets think of it.

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Johnny
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I should say that i am not a jealous person. I think that everything depends on trust between two people. If people have mutual understanding and trust, then there is no reason for being jealousy...I really think that it is not good relationship when one person is always worring about the other one, when he is checking mails and sms and phone calls...For me it is weird :S

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Samuel
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Healthy jealousy is something very vague, and awkward for me, but I don't want to say that it doesn't exist in our society, and in our life. It is everywhere, beginning from our work, ending by everyday situations in the street. Jealousy in relationships, as for me, it's very possible, and natural thing, especially when there is love between two persons.

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Morningstar
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jealousy

I am not a jealous person. But if you are try to understand the emotion of jealousy. Jealousy is a complex emotion that can include many others: fear, loss, anger, envy, sorrow, betrayal, inadequacy, and humiliation. If you are feeling jealous, understand that there are many other emotions that can occur with jealousy, but jealousy might be the emotion you notice first. Spend time thinking through your emotions.
Write out how you feel. If you are a visual person, make a chart or a drawing that represents all the different emotions you feel and their connection to jealousy.

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HappyDaddy
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Do not be jeaousy. It is stupid. Remind yourself of how lucky you are. When you're blinded by jealousy, it's impossible to see things objectively and to understand how fortunate you truly are. Remind yourself that you're lucky just to have running water, food to eat whenever you want it, good health, and even access to a computer.Understand how fortunate you are compared to most people in the world. Remind yourself that many people in the world do not have many basic things that you take for granted. It's likely that you've never had to deal with real hunger, that you're healthy and can see a doctor fairly easily, that you have enough clothes to stay warm, and that you don't feel oppressed in the place where you live. This is more than many people can say.

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YourHubby
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There have been times,when I was jealous as hell to almost everybody my then-boyfriend would even talk or look at-I don't know,it was some kind of a real crazy love or something.Usually,I've always had a reasonable dose of jealousy,practically never crossing the line between normal and a little quirky. :) Now,I guess,I'm practically cured of this disease :) .We have a really beautiful relationship,built on trust and love,and mutual respect.And you know what-I think when you're happy.seriously happy,you forget about any jealousy,if it ever was some in you. B)

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ElijahLil
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There is nothing more humiliating than justifying ourselves in non-existent infidelity, repenting of sins that did not commit. Jealousy as a rivalry, as the fear of losing each other is still understandable, although undesirable. Jealousy as a disease, as selfishness, as humiliation beloved distrust - shameful, unacceptable. It is possible and necessary to get rid of this feeling. Strong jealousy is a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more we restrict the freedom of the partner, the more likely that he will seek to get rid of these fetters, and as a consequence, change. The reaction you receive is the result of your communication.

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Valeos
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All greetings. Thank God, this word has bypassed me and I am not a jealous person. It's hard for me to imagine how it's going to be jealous and jealous of someone. I always wanted to be better than myself at every stage of my life. If I wanted to sometimes look like someone better than me, then I just tried and worked harder, but without envy. Maybe I was brought up like this. Maybe God deprived me of this feeling or emotion, but thank you for it) I try to trust people, and jealousy is a destructive feeling.

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Alister
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After finding out the

After finding out the relationship with yourself, think - is your jealousy with respect to your man just right, put yourself in his place and think about it, or even, write in detail how you would act in this situation. After that, analyze the attitude of your loved one to you under the circumstances and, your own, whether you are in his place. The results will be stunning! After all, people always think that no one but him is kinder and more tolerant, only he is so unique. I also recommend that you do it yourself. And do it first. After all, if we are satisfied with ourselves, then we are confident, and it does not occur to us that someone can take our love away, because we are so cool! Yes, and time will not be especially on the composition of such nonsense as jealousy.

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Albert
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Perhaps you are jealous of

Perhaps you are jealous of nature. Or maybe in your life there was a situation when a loved one betrayed you, and this shook the confidence in men. But if jealousy does not allow you to live peacefully, you need to get rid of it.

Who needs jealousy, which poisons relationships with loved ones? You must understand that if you are jealous without substantial reason, the problem is in you, in your dissatisfaction with themselves, low self-esteem and an unhealthy desire to have a loved one, subjugate it. Think about how often there are conflicts between you because of your distrust.

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Brian
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If one of these issues

If one of these issues seriously touches you for living things and you are experiencing problems with controlling your jealousy, then it is likely that your attachment style is far from reliable.

The good news is that the styles are quite labile and amenable to changes due to both the acquisition of new experiences and other life circumstances. Bad - if these problems are still relevant for you, then to change the characteristic attachment style for you, it is better to contact a qualified specialist. The doctor will help you build self-esteem and work out unresolved problems.

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