What is jealousy for you? If we are talking about it - lets first make sure that we know what is actually jealousy is. Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, concern, and anxiety over an anticipated loss or status of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness and disgust. So what is healthy jealousy? I mean we all have those feeling so lets think of it.