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Louis
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Hello guys! Want to share my thoughts with you. Now I have a difficult period in my life. I have been separated with my partner. I was in despair. But then I understood something important. In the life of almost everyone, sooner or later the separation comes. It happens not once unfortunately. This is an important event because it is only one side is the end of something. More importantly, the separation point is the selection and the start of something new. If the choice is correct, it is the beginning of a new and better life, a true understanding of love. A colossal number of people parting helps to become adults, loving and happy people.

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AdamL
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Well, it is always hard to survive being separated from a person you love, but sometimes without separation from one another people often don't understand how important they are for each other. When you are together all the time, it turns into a habit, you think that everything goes as it should be, we think that it is forever and nothing will change it, so you do nothing to keep what you have.

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Louis
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Yes, the biggest things are seemed from a distance. And love is a big thing, so from time to time it is important to look at it from a distance to understand what it really is, what you do right and wrong. When our dear person is near us, it is like air we breathe - we don't see the air, so we don't notice it. But when we feel the lack of it, we understand that we cannot live without air. So, being apart can help.

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AdamL
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Sometimes it is necessary, but hard and the question is how to cope with being apart with your partner. Do something pleasant for him, prepare some special surprise to give your partner when he comes back. Write him romantic letters. It is not even necessary to send them, but it will be a pleasure for him to read the words of love from you when he comes back. You can keep a diary writing how hard it is for you to spend a day without him.

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Louis
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But if it is possible to keep connection with your second half when he is far away, you should do it, of course. But don't call him every single minute, especially if it is a business trip and you know that he is busy. So, send him sweet short SMS like "I love you", "Miss you already", "I wish you were with me now", "Good night, hope we'll dream about each other tonight" - it will be good for you both.

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AdamL
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And if there is a mobile connection, call him at least once a day, in the evening, not to bother him while he is working. SMS are good, but it is not enough, it is nothing but a set of typed letters. And it is very important to hear the voice of the one you love, to hear the most important words from him. Nothing can replace it. So if you have such an opportunity, use it - call him to tell about your love and about missing him.

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Louis
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Sometimes you just need to go somewhere far away from your partner even if no circumstances lead to it. If you are not sure in your own feeling to this person or in his feelings to you. If you cannot decide how serious your relationships are, if you have doubts whether to create a family or not. If some of you is to blame and another one does not know whether to forgive or not, you need to spend some time apart.

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AdamL
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Sometimes it is really hard to tell yourself exactly what you feel to the person when this person is near you and being apart is necessary for you to clear up your mind and to understand what you really want. If being far away from a person you don't even think of him, then it is a sign for you that these are not that relationships you both need and you need to let each other go instead of keeping loveless relationships.

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Louis
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Human life consisits of three main points: beginning, duration and finishing. The same happens with relationships. We find someone, date him or live with him and then we have to part with him. Parting is inevitable part of every relationships and we should take it for granted. I agree with you that we can use it in order to become better and meet better people. Of course, it's rather painful to loose your partner, but let's make it our benefit not a failure.

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Timberland
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oh honey you will get better.No doubt about it.The healing process has a beginning, a middle and an end. Keep in mind, at the beginning, that there is an end. It's not that far off. You will heal.Nature is on your side, and nature is a powerful ally.Tell yourself, often, "I am alive. I will survive."You are alive.You will survive.

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Louis
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I know it's very difficult, you love the person, you got used to him.When bang!! Talk to your friends. When something bad happens at home, have at least one friend you can talk to about it, or even your guidance counselor.Take care of yourself.Give importance to your own life's priorities. Age before 25 is a beautiful age. Make the most of this by giving importance to your health, education, sports, friends, emotional well being.Dont give up. The life is nice :cheer:

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