I think you have to try all the ways that you can try right now. In addition, I also think that you just have to try to find a thing that is really good for you. You should try to find a way to develop your courage, which will be convenient for you. I think this is the best option to deal with your problem. In addition, I also think that maybe you should try to change your thinking about this a little bit. From time to time, we may re-evaluate everything that happens around us in this world every day. And then we can understand that many things are temporary. Good and bad are also temporary. Therefore, you should not have a fear of something.
From time to time I would really like to find some universal method that could give me courage in everything that can happen in our life. But I can say that we can not find such methods anyway. I also think that first of all we just have to put up with everything that happens to us every day. We must come to terms with the things that we have in ordinary life simply because every one of us has it all. So I think you already brave. You've even brave because you decided to talk about your fears with the guys here. And I really hope that this is the answer to your question.
I do not know what you think about the usual fear in our lives. But in any case, I really think that fear - it is absolutely normal reaction to our organism in situations in which we can feel some kind of danger. In addition, I also do not see anything special that would encourage you to take some special measures to get rid of your fears and gain more courage. First of all, you must remember that any fear that we can feel in our lives - it is simply the reaction of our body to specific things that can create some danger for us. And it's completely normal. You should not worry too much about it.
From time to time, each of us has some fears. But in any case, it is really commendable that you're trying to find a way to gain more courage. But above all, only you can help you in this matter. I can explain my point of view about it. I think that the courage - this is a psychological phenomenon that only we can develop in our minds. Of course, you can also consult with a psychologist who can also help a little in this regard. But I think that only you can think about all this and understand some things for you that will help you become braver. First of all, you must understand that our life - a temporary thing. And we should not be afraid to defend our interests in front of other people.
Bravery - that's quite an interesting concept. In addition, each of us can have his own understanding of these things. I think that courage can be a really important thing from time to time, but in any case, it should not become a really important thing in your relationship. If you really want to be able to protect you and your partner physically - you can always start to learn some martial arts. But above all, I must warn you that it is quite difficult. Moreover, you can get new challenges thanks to all this. I think you have a really good wish, but you must not put it in the forefront.
Sometimes it is more important to be able to protect your partner emotionally. Our beloved is not always guy need, which should be able to protect them physically. But in any case, each of us should be able to protect our beloved morally. I think this should be the most important thing in such matters. In addition, each of us should be able to help partner with the help of our care, love and affection especially in difficult moments. I do not think we have an opportunity to defend a guy that we love. But if we can support him in difficult times - we'll be together for a long time.
I can tell you some things from my personal experience in such matters. Because I also had a certain dream. I always wanted to be able to protect someone, someone I really like. In addition I have also always had a desire to be strong and be able to protect me when I'm going to need this. So I began to study karate. I am sure that it was really the right decision. But believe me, even if you train regularly and you learn karate for several years - it does not mean that you will always be able reserved both of you. From time to time, we may be faced with really bad guys, who can use vile things against you.
Each of us must understand that only we can change something in our lives. From time to time we are unable to influence some things. But in any case we have to continue to live and try to do it. I think that first of all it is the psychological moment. Therefore, you have to define some things for you, that will help to develop bravery in your character. Maybe you just have to realize that you are completely free from all the things that were a problem for you. You must understand that you are completely free from all fears, that once surrounded you. Then, perhaps, when you can do a lot more than you thought before - you really will get more courage in your character.
I think that sometimes we can get enough bravery to even try to protect someone whom we really love. And I do not think you have to spend time to learn some martial arts, no. I think that first and foremost you just have to love this guy so much as you can. And when you and your boyfriend accidentally'll meet some homophobes, who will try to beat you, both of you will be able to protect each other really well. In addition, I also think that you will not have any fear in such situations. You must understand that each of us can do crazy things when he has justified the purpose for this.
Well, I do not think that courage can be enough to cope with certain dangers in our lives. Also I do not want you to think something bad about me through my mind right now. And I also do not want you to think of me as a coward. I just want to say thanks to the modern world, we can find dozens of different ways to be able to protect us when we really needed it. For example, you can always use a gas cylinder to cope with any villain. Or you can just buy a stun gun. It is also quite a good thing in any case. I want to say that you should not only think of the physical self-defense with the help of some martial arts.
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