You need to understand that it's not your fault. dude Pregnancy loss or complications during it can happen to anyone. Discuss openly and honestly with your partner what happened and how it affects you. Remember that there is no right or wrong way to grieve. Accept your feelings for what they are, and do not judge yourself or your partner for how you or he reacts.
Give time to heal up.
All of these legends begin with the loss of the main character loved one and represent a journey into the world of the dead (the underworld) for the sake of reunion with the beloved, finding integrity, and beginning a new life.
After losing someone or something very dear to you can experience a variety of emotions; shock, anger and guilt - just some of them. Sometimes it may seem that sadness will never go. Although these emotions can be frightening and overwhelming, it is a normal reaction to loss. Acceptance is a natural stage of grief, and to heal the soul, one must allow oneself to feel that pain.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve but there are healthy ways to cope with it. The experience of overcoming pain has a healing potential, which could eventually make you stronger and enrich your life.
grief is a natural reaction to loss. It's an emotional experience that a person experiences when leaving someone you love or something very dear to him. In addition to the death of loved ones, causes much grief could be a breakup, loss of health, loss of a job and financial stability a miscarriage death of a pet, the destruction of a cherished dream, a serious illness of a loved one, loss of friendship, loss of a sense of security after physical and/or psychological trauma.
The more significant loss for an individual, the greater his grief. However, not even a very significant loss can cause pronounced adverse psychological reaction. For example, a person may feel grief after moving, graduating, changing jobs, selling the house, in which lived a long time, his family, or retiring from a job that he loved.
Grief is personal and very individual experience. How do you cope with it, depends on many factors, including the characteristics of your personality and your style of coping, life experiences, faith, and the nature of the loss. In any case, this process takes time. Healing happens gradually and cannot be rushed to fit an artificially - there is no "normal" schedule of grief. Someone gets better after a few weeks or months. Someone who lives with the grief over the years. No matter how it happened you treat yourself with patience and let the process take its course.
Hello guys!!I am really sorry about your situation ,Leny08!!Miscarriage is always awful!!And I think that even if it is a surrogate mother had it,so simply would have such pain if it is your child!In my opinion 7th and 8th months are most difficult and dangerous for everyone in pregnancy,so I think that in this time we should pay as much as it is possible attention to the surrogate mother.So Leny08,I would like to recommend you,not to try surrogate motherhood for some time.You need have a rest from all this pain of miscarriage ,you need and your partner need have rest and gather up strength for the new step in your life,for the new trying to have children.I strongly recommend you to travel somewhere maybe it can help you to cope you with this grief.
Oh...........( i'm really so sorry! When the friend of mine told me she was pregnant I was so happy because she told me that I'm gonna be the godfather of the baby! I've already bought some toys and a nibbler for my future godson\daughter. And than she called me from hospital crying that he had the miscarriage at the 8th week. I was really crashed , I was so sorry for my friend and for the baby who didn't see the world. Doctors told her that the reason was the empty sac! I can't even imgine that that stuff ever happen. We supported her as we can , went to the hospital every day and tried to tell some jokes and funny stories, but they didn't help even me((( A year already passed after this accident but i still remember about it and a have the heavy heart when i see her. We try not to speak about it. I belive that time can cure such wounds, much time. Hold the fort!
i do not even know what to tell you about it, i think that it is really very sad and i think that it is rather hard to cope with it, but at the same time you shall be strong and you shall make the other try. of course i know that it would be hard and for you it will be hard to start the journey for one more time but i think that you know that it is really a needed thing and you will be happy father. maybe now it is just not the right time for that and in the future you would be much happier. i think that you shall think about it more and understand that it is not your fault, and it is not the end of the life, you deserve to be the father and i think that you will be the best father for your child.
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