i think that almost every couple face with this problem. and my family is not exception. My husband does not kiss me, does not hug me, does not ask how i am, he is not interested in how I live, he does not talk about himself. Also, he do not want to talk about what he dissatisfied with. I'm not a child and must understand everything by myself. I said to him that all normal people say that they do not like something. If he did not take out the garbage, I will not keep silent for three days, but just remind him. And he sits at the computer, and just ignores my questions. i also do not know what to do with my man. i love him very much. we have a child, but our relationship is awful, as i think.
i want to say that it is not good that you are in such situation. i agree that you shoul talk with your man about this. it is very important. as for me i had such experience in my last relationship. the first tree months of our living together everything was perfect, but then my men changed. i did not like that and i broke up with him. it was impossible to bear it. he understood that there is some pronlems, but do nothing. so, i desided that i do not need this man in my life. if man do not want to change for you he is not your man. believe me. your life will be worse if you continue living together with him. i wish you good luck and to be strong.
Hi, OP! I think your beloved may act in such way because he sees that you are doing everything by yourself. I know it from personal experience, believe me. Maybe, you are so active and energetic person that you don't givw him an opportunity to do anything by himself. The best you can do in this situation is to talk with him about this problems. Just ask him why he doesn't want to do household chores. His answer will certainly clear up the situation!!!
my greeting to all of you here guys... what a pleasure to be here ad have the opportunity to share my personal point of view on some details...! Well, actually I am relly interested in this problem that you have...
because it seems to me that my personal life is going through the same stages all over again....Gosh, that is sooo difficult to be honest, I am tired of the constant misunderstanding from his side... it really feels like the game for some person - the relations can not be taken like this for sure..! So, my opinion is pretty clear here - you have to overcome it
It is very interesting, Good night friends and visitors to the site. Your situation is not simple.
But if understand it, then I think there is a solution. You can try to interest your partner to do something together, or ask him if something needs to be done and then praised, just like a child, just do not replay it, say that no one will do it like him, most likely he will want to hear it again and will try to do something else for that) But if any methods do not affect, then most likely he does not care about your relationship and you, then draw a conclusion as to be further.
However, if the sexual difficulties can still be attributed to the mismatch of temperaments, the inexperience of a man or even to your own intimate difficulties, then with care this number does not work: you just need to be in a difficult situation once to understand why this man stays with you . And it's not about some kind of tragedy: it's enough just to catch a cold. He calls and asks, how do you feel? He is wondering if you need medicine? After work, he goes to you and brings a ready meal and some nice movie? If yes, congratulations: he loves you. If not, alas: he does not feel any feelings for you, he just kills with you time.
My husband does not kiss me, does not hug me, does not ask how things are, he is not interested in what I live, he does not talk about himself. All this was, but now it's closed. Also, he refuses to talk, what is dissatisfied with, they say, I'm not a child and must understand everything myself. To this I reply that it's not a sorceress and all normal people say that they do not like them, ask their spouses for something. If he did not take out the garbage, I will not play silently for three days, but just remind him. And he sits, staring at the computer, and even ignores my questions.Do not get me wrong, I'm not a talkative person and do not ship it from morning till night. But that for a day and ten minutes not to talk? I in fact sit at home and practically anybody I do not see any more! It's just inhuman! Relatives live in another city. Friends and friends are both real and online, but I need to communicate with my husband, with a friend, with a man whom I love and for whom I married. And it seems not.
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