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Marcus12
Last seen: 9 months 1 week ago
Joined: 02/21/2017 - 11:16
HE DOES NOT CARE

Good afternoon, to all guests and readers who are ready to listen to my personal problems... not that long time ago I started to notice that my husband is really kind of indifferent to the mutual life we are having right now. What I mean is that he really does not care about home little problems, he is not interested in dealing with this routine problems... I have the feeling that I am the only one who is paying attention to all of it .. what should I do? How to fight with it?! Or should I fight with it at all....sad what does his attitude mean...?! It is really not clear to me at all I am looking for another point of view...

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JasperJ
Last seen: 8 months 4 days ago
Joined: 03/03/2017 - 07:50
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Hello there, my greeting to all of you here guys... what a pleasure to be here ad have the opportunity to share my personal point of view on some details...! Well, actually I am relly interested in this problem that you have... because it seems to me that my personal life is going through the same stages all over again....Gosh, that is sooo difficult to be honest, I am tired of the constant misunderstanding from his side...crying it really feels like the game for some person - the relations can not be taken like this for sure..! So, my opinion is pretty clear here - you have to overcome it...!

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CarlosFerro
Last seen: 6 months 4 weeks ago
Joined: 03/07/2017 - 13:56
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That is definitely not the easiest question of all times, I guess, you understand it...but, you have a husband and of course, if you see the ongoing problem, you will be probably trying to make it better, right?! And here I am, a free man , not married and the one who really does not want to get married in the nearest decade, I feel that I would not cope and be calm in the same situation... because, it is really does not worth ay minute of my personal time...yeah, I know, I may be a little be tough but in the other case, I would ot be able to cope with it...so, that is my position and attitude to this situation. 

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Jeffry
Last seen: 9 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 03/28/2017 - 15:02
He does not care

MY sincere greetings to all guests of the website... so, guys, that is really interesting theme for me and right now I am thinking not only about my personal life, but about yours too, because it is interesting to me...obviously, I am not able to tell you how much I am into the partner when w are trying to have the mutual life together...it is something I can not describe..anyway, on the other hand, you have to change his position! I remember that you are the one who have been dreaming to have baby and what shall you have after baby is born?! you will be alone with your personal problems, and nothing else...

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Bred
Last seen: 9 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 11/13/2016 - 09:33
well  you know i think that

well  you know i think that it is  a real problem for the relations and i hope that you will find a kind of way out of it because it is really not very pleasant and i think that  you know what i am talking about. it is really very hard but in general i can tell you  that if you want to gain something then you would  definitely do it and i do not have any doubts in it. it is life and i am sure that  you are able to succeed in it  if you love each other and  you want to change it. i think that the first thing that  you shall do is to talk with your partner about it, it is life and i think that if you are together then it means that he loves you and he is able to change  his attitude.

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RomioMio
Last seen: 9 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 04/04/2017 - 13:40
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He does not care... So?! Are you living in the sweet dream..?!! Is that really possible that you are having the rest from all the discussion you have lately and of course, in addition to the main theme you have the ability to take care of his attitude..?! look ,as for my strict character, I ould not stand such kind of behavior..1 and he would be very, deeply and sincerely sorry for all he has done to me, guys...thus, I am going to look for more abilities to have the rest and have the main thing to happen - the reality is so short, that you have just be clear there and tell your partner - there is the limit! 

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ElijahLil
Last seen: 2 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 09/28/2017 - 19:20
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All men quickly get used to good: cleanliness in the house, a tasty supper, ready domestic work for children, clean and ironed clothes. To your husband realized how hard it is for you to do this, try to leave him at home for the whole day, having introduced the front of the work. Most likely, after returning home you will find that most of the work is not done, and the husband will be surprised how you all manage to do in a day. If this does not encourage him to help you around the house, then at least he will begin to monitor himself and respect your work. If you need help from your husband, then you just need to ask him. The easiest way is to make hints: walk past with a vacuum cleaner or a basin of dirty clean clothes. Only this is in vain. Men do not understand such hints.

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Stefan
Last seen: 2 months 1 week ago
Joined: 09/29/2017 - 10:09
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wow, i had the same problem as you. he didn't want to help me around the house, he didn't want to buy something for our home to make it cozy and comfortable. it was too hard for me, because i loved him. but some day i made a decision to break up with him, because i understood that this person wouldn't make me happy. he would only annoy me and bring stress to me. so i recommend you firstly speak with your partner and explain him that you won't bear it and you will leave if he doesn't change his attitude. if he really loves you, he will do it for you. if not, he doesnt deserve for your attention.

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ElijahLil
Last seen: 2 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 09/28/2017 - 19:20
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Do not forget that we can not change another person, we can change only ourselves. It is this understanding that will help to build the right relationship with a man. Remembering this, you will act in the right direction. If you ask: "How can I get my husband to help me around the house?" I honestly answer you: "No!" Neither I, nor you, nor anybody else can ever teach a man to something or to force something to do. If you remain silent or do not clearly express your desires, a man can never find out what you are not comfortable with, and what you really want. Learn to ask a man for help. Not hints. Men hints, if they are not about sex, do not understand. Neither "direct", nor "thin", any. They understand only the request.

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Maurizio San
Last seen: 1 month 2 weeks ago
Joined: 11/09/2017 - 09:19
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Hello to all visitors to this site. One day I had such a relationship in which my partner adapted, and lived the revelry and did nothing at all. I was still very young and held on to him as best I could. What is interesting, we lived at my house then, I already earned enough to pamper myself, but then also my boyfriend. That's it, my partner lived at my house, did not work, but also created stressful and conflict situations .. Accused me of all the troubles but said that he loves me immensely ... I will say this, as I understood later, he just enjoyed a profitable situation and did not like me, did nothing about the house, because he did not create it and did not participate in it was like it happens to the house ... So I said goodbye to him and do not regret it, but got it in turn valuable experience.

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Valeos
Last seen: 2 weeks 4 days ago
Joined: 11/23/2017 - 11:52
HE DOES NOT CARE

Good night friends and visitors to the site. Your situation is not simple. But if understand it, then I think there is a solution. You can try to interest your partner to do something together, or ask him if something needs to be done and then praised, just like a child, just do not replay it, say that no one will do it like him, most likely he will want to hear it again and will try to do something else for that) But if any methods do not affect, then most likely he does not care about your relationship and you, then draw a conclusion as to be further.frown

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