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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 2 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:03
Blame you for all his failures

i think that it is not your fault and you can not do anything with it. just take it easy and dont worry about it too much, but i know that if you want to save your relations then you definitely have to do something in order to improve it. i advise you to talk to your partner about it and tell him that it worries and disappoints you much. that his behaviour is not acceptable and he has to change his attitude to you. otherwise your relations will just disappear. if he loves you then he will definitely change.

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JohnB
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Joined: 09/28/2016 - 09:10
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Of course, you are not t blame in problems because of which your partner has no job. But it is not a question about who to blame. The question is how to save your relationships. It is possible to save them only if you don't follow his manipulations when he blames you. Just say "Okay" and stop the conversation. Your partner says what he says just because he is on top of emotions because of his problems with the absence of work. You can do nothing with it (finding him a new job is a way out, but if you could find a new job for your partner, there would be no problem at all.

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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 2 months ago
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To tell the truth I think it is a serious signal for you and your relationship with this guy. When he began to blame you, I think that he did not think enough about what the word today. Of course, I do not know the situation completely. But in any case, I understand that this is wrong. I understand that your partner has no right to blame you for something. All of his problems - it's his own fault. He does not blame you for something at all. I think maybe he's just tired of his life. But of course I also think that he has lost his job and now he's got a very serious stress. In any case, I think you should discuss these issues with him during a serious conversation.

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John
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I don’t think you have real feeling if he blames you in everything that is going wrong in your life. I think that life can’t be ideal and very often a lot of troubles happen to us and change our life completely both in positive and negative way. Try to clarify his real attitude to you.

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Mario
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Yes! His real attitude will make you understand why he blames you. I don’t think that you are guilty in the problems that happened to him on his work. I think he doesn’t love you. Maybe he just uses you for some purposes and now when something went wrong he decided to blame you and leave you.

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serq
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Everyone - the individual, unlike any other. All people are completely different. There are strong and weak estt. Of course the weak-willed people after their dreams shattered tend to blame others, but poistene strong people will simply go on, in spite of everything, to continue its purposeful.It is easier to blame someone else for their failures instead of blaming themselves, rather than someone else and well understand the reason neudachi.No when a person throws the blame on someone else, he does not need to start thinking analizirovat.On " it all happened because of him, I was not prichem.V I do not who will not interfere with the next time, and all I get, "and the next time the same thing, again begin to someone or something to blame

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Benny
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Joined: 07/18/2016 - 08:07
Blame you for all his failures

i think that it is very bad if he blames you in all his failures. that means that he is very weak as a person and he doesnt know what is the responsibility for his own actions. he is just the child and you will always be blamed by him. of course it is easier to blame someone other than to accept your fault. it is very sad because it is very difficult to live with such people. if you talk with him about this situations and he wont change then i think that it would be better to leave him.

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Morningstar
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Joined: 10/09/2016 - 17:34
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well first of all i would like to know what was the exact reason for him to leave gis job
there should be a reason. he can not just say that it was because of you. we all have good times and bad times in our life's. so maybe it is just a period of life and you just have to be patient and strong enough to handle that. i know that that is hard but this is all you can do.
besides that you have to have a very serious talk with your partner. you have to ask what is exact problem and can you two! solve it. together. not just you. that is his problem too. do not take it close to your heart. everything should be solved soon!

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YourHubby
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That situtiono looks shity but he has no rights to blame you. It was his decision! You should stop it.But don’t use emotional pressure to try to stop the blaming directly anyway..Because blaming is the best that your partner knows how to do(looks like at least) , directly trying to take away the blaming will cause more problems. You don’t want your partner to stop blaming only to become aggressively angry, depressed, or end the relationship, for example. It’s the one leg he has to stand on, so kicking it out from under him is not going to help. And, if you succeed in getting your boyfriend to stop blaming you, but have no way to deal with the problems he cares about, he will continue to mentally and silently blame you. Be careful..

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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 2 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:03
Blame you for all his failures

As for me i think that it is very bad if he blames you in all his failures. that means that he is very weak as a person and he doesnt know what is the responsibility for his own actions. he is just the child and you will always be blamed by him.
of course it is easier to blame someone other than to accept your fault. it is very sad because it is very difficult to live with such people. if you talk with him about this situations and he wont change then i think that it would be better to leave him.

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