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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 2 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:03
Blame you for all his failures

Hi all, guys! I hope you are well today. Also, I really hope you have a good mood in this beautiful day. But I have to talk to you about a little sad topic. It's really sad, at least for me. I live with my partner for several years. And all the time we did not have any problems in our relations. He just loved me and I just loved it ... I tried to do everything I can to make his life at least a little nicer and better. But in any case the last time he began to blame me. I do not know why he is doing and saying things like that. But in any case, last month, he is unemployed. He's got some serious problems in his job, and now he blames me, he left his work because of me and got a lot of other problems ... I do not know what to say to him ...

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Vincent
Last seen: 1 year 3 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:02
Blame you for all his failures

I think it is a serious signal for you and your relationship with this guy. When he began to blame you, I think that he did not think enough about what the word today. Of course, I do not know the situation completely. But in any case, I understand that this is wrong. I understand that your partner has no right to blame you for something. All of his problems - it's his own fault. He does not blame you for something at all. I think maybe he's just tired of his life. But of course I also think that he has lost his job and now he's got a very serious stress. In any case, I think you should discuss these issues with him during a serious conversation.

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Aaron
Last seen: 1 year 2 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:03
Blame you for all his failures

I also think that this is completely normal. I think you're trying to keep it at any time. Also, I'm sure you tried to help him in all his deeds mentally and physically. And now he's trying to accuse you of this? I do not think it's a good idea to his side. In addition, it shows its real face. I think that now you also see that your partner - a real selfish. Also, I think you have to analyze the situation well enough to understand what you should do next. You should not stay with your partner, if he continues to blame you for everything. Because such situations eventually become worse.

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Frank
Last seen: 1 year 6 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 09:20
Blame you for all his failures

You should not feel any guilt. All that you hear from your partner now - just a silly attempt to find someone who might be to blame for his own mistakes. If he lost his job for some reason, only he is responsible for it. In addition, I also think that you do not have to react to things like that. I do not understand when the person who should help you and support you especially in difficult times - is trying to make you guilty of something. I do not think it will help keep your relationship. That is why I also think that you should discuss the matter and decide what you will do next.

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Milton
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:04
Blame you for all his failures

I think that first of all, you both need to have a conversation and understand the cause of your problem. You should talk to your partner and tell him that this is not normal. You should explain to your partner that if he continues to accuse you, you can leave it all ... it's because you do not deserve to hear such words. I do not think you could do something bad for a guy that you really love. In addition, I also do not think that you could somehow affect your job guy. Even if you give some advice - it was just advice. In any case, he should not blame you for his problems. It's just not fair.

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Johnson
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:04
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Of course I can not give any serious advice in this matter, but in any case I can give you one piece of advice. I think you can also talk to your partner, and if it does not work, you can always call some family psychologist, him to help both of you to solve your problems in a relationship. I think that at times we do forget about this great opportunity - to get help family psychologist. Just maybe right now your partner does not understand what he was doing. Perhaps he was just nervous, and could not help showing it all on you ... but this is wrong. Therefore, it may be a good option.

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Ismual
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:04
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I think you should try to figure out your relationship. I could even scream at your partner in such a situation. Of course you may just have a totally different character, and we can be completely different with you. But in any case I think that you should not be silent. You should also tell your partner everything that you think about him and about the problem between you. Why would he blame you in his error. You can also tell him that if he tries to blame you in his error - he was not even a man. It is difficult to say who he is in this life. In any case, I advise you to be brave.

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Ivaniko
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:05
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Normal conversation over a cup of coffee can solve many problems, even in family relationships. Believe me, I have some experience in this type of situation. In addition, I also think that you just have to calm down the two. If your partner has lost his job, but you continue to work - this is completely normal. I do not see any major problem with that. He just will search for a new job, and your life can change for the better. I always think that we need an additional optimism in our lives. Because if we do not think positively about some things - we can just lose everything.

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Alfronto
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:05
Blame you for all his failures

I think that the main problem in this situation - stress. Your partner lost his job and now he does not feel that he can provide his life and bring the family budget additional money. I can understand your partner a little bit. But of course I can also understand that he has no right to somehow offend you or hurt for you. It is absolutely unfair. In addition, you always try to help him and support him. If you lose it, I do not know what might happen to him. Maybe he can totally go crazy with all these problems. You just have to tell him that he should not try to get rid of stress using insults to you ...

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Gongorini
Last seen: Never ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:05
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I think both of you should have a little rest. Both of you should try to relax and forget at least for a while about all the problems that happen to you. In addition, you should also understand that many of the problems in our lives make us stronger and better! If your partner has lost his job - it is an opportunity to find something better and more convenient for him. In addition, our universe from time to time sends some tips for us. But in any case, it should not hurt you now. He must love you even more because you have to support him and help him. I think he just does not think about it now ...

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Barboro
Last seen: 1 year 2 months ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:03
Blame you for all his failures

It means that something has gone wrong in your relationships. Probably you payed too much attention to your boyfriend's needs, forgetting about yourself. Of course, it is a painful thing to understand that a person you love does not appreciate you as it was before. It is the trait of a weak personality to blame everybody around of his faults or problems. I think that you should review your attitude to him, stop giving him everything you have. Maybe he is depressed and disturbed because of life problems and difficulties, but he should not treat you in such a way. Give him time for consideration, you do not have to feel sorry about that.

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