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Mike
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
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I have a gay friend and he is asking what to do. In his environment no one, except me, knows he is a gay. He hides it and rather successfully. He is 24 and nobody wonders if he is alone. The parents are proud of him, he work for an insurance company. Several months ago he met the guy and they started to date basically to have sex at his home. He was happy. But that guy decided that it was not enough and offered to move in with him. And my friend refused because he had everything arranged - work, friends, parents, and cohabitation with a man destroyed all his life idyll. The matter is that the guy took sex videos with my friend.And he said that he shows all videos to my friend's colleagues at work if he would refuse to live with him. What should my friend do?

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Mike
Last seen: 1 year 7 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 09:24
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Henry, I may understand your friend's boyfriend, because everybody wants to live with their beloved without fear of something. And this guy wants the same. But at the same time, I think that he did the wrong thing, when tried to blackmail his boyfriend, because it is unfair enough. I think your friend should explain his attitude to all this situation to his partner.

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Bred
Last seen: 10 months 3 weeks ago
Joined: 11/13/2016 - 09:33
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well you know i think that it is really strange and i do not even know what to tell you about it because i have never  faced such situation and i  do not know how i will solve this problem. i think that you friend has to  talk with him and then  maybe he will be sure what he can do. of course i understand  that it does not help in all the cases but i think that he may  just  try to improve the situation and i really hope that it will help you.   but of course  your friend may be violent  and cruel and try to get this  video and delete but i do not think that that  guy is really stupid . it is very hard and i do not know what i will do.  he may accept his offer and then delete the video.  that is what i can tell you about it.

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Marcus12
Last seen: 10 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 02/21/2017 - 11:16
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Look, this is not the rare, but still pretty typical situation indeed.... As a matter of fact, your friend will be forced to reveal his true sexual orientation for the sake of the normal life... it is really just insane to walk around and not have the opportunity to feel free, to even breathe freely..! What kind of life is this?! I am shocked, he is an adult guys, his is working, he has to tell parents about it.. yeah, now after arranging the lifestyle it will be difficult for him to break it all, to see that lots of people will be shocked and he will be abandoned by someone... but it is better be done sooner than later..

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JasperJ
Last seen: 9 months 1 week ago
Joined: 03/03/2017 - 07:50
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Blackmailing is the worst thing ever... the one who is able to commit the real blackmail which will definitely lead to some unexpected consequences, will be forever a person of the real disguise for me personally..! I am utterly convinced also that your dear friend really will not cope with having two lives at the same time. It will drive him crazy and eventually he will be forced to choose between each of them.. and of course, the close circle will start notice how much he has changed already and in the end, he will be definitely declassified and lots of close friends and relatives will be in shock. 

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CarlosFerro
Last seen: 8 months 6 days ago
Joined: 03/07/2017 - 13:56
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my greetings dear people...happy to see  lot of comment here, now I see that there are just an incredible amount of people who are always ready to help...and I would really be interested in having the scene of it all but look, we do not need more details than we have already. In the particular case of your friend - there is no real love between him nd his sexual partner... I am sure that there just a little amount of sympathy, but in general there is out blind passion which forces a guy to act so outstadigly weird...in my opinion he has to dea with it somehow..! It is not the option...

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Jeffry
Last seen: 10 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 03/28/2017 - 15:02
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That is a sad story you have told us actually...and in my point of view, we are not able to take care of such things, because, we can only discuss it, but without judgement and give some piece of advice, nothing more...am I right?! I guess so...but if your friend is really looking for the help and opinion from the side, I will tell you next - he will not be able to hide his real personality all the time, till the end of his days..! That is not possible and it is not as it has to be...my point is clear - he has to talk to close people and tell the truth. In addition, doing this, he will be able to get rid of that awful lover, who is trying to blackmail! 

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RomioMio
Last seen: 10 months 3 weeks ago
Joined: 04/04/2017 - 13:40
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Hey, guys. Take my sincere and kind regards to all of you... as far as I am convinced there definitely just has to be the place in the world where we will be able to share all problems and thoughts of the life..! So right here we are all able to discuss a lot of stuff and it is nice, and pleasant of course...in my personal point of view, it just goes without saying that your friend has to take the thorough care of everything what is going on around him... also, he will have to tell closets people the truth, thus, he will overcome the blackmail! And as for the partner who is treating  - he does not worth of the penny..! 

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Stefan
Last seen: 3 months 2 weeks ago
Joined: 09/29/2017 - 10:09
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Oh my. I am so sorry about this situation with your friend. I couldn't imagine that someone can do such things. I think only bad, unhappy and lonely people can do it. Maybe your friend can try to have a little talk with this person? Maybe he will understand that he did bad thing and correct it.

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Maurizio San
Last seen: 2 months 3 weeks ago
Joined: 11/09/2017 - 09:19
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Greetings to all. Wow, that's the news here I found ... surpriseWhat a bitch ... I thought it was only in the movie you can see, but it turned out that in real life it's possible. What a sexy maniac ... and how he imagines he will live after all the threats and blackmail with your friend, this is all normal and as well as necessary ... Well, some nonsense. That's why I'm always against all kinds of photos and videos, they can always be used against me. Well ... in any case, living with him already happily fails, I would have established a relationship with this blackmailer in the place of your friend, and would quietly take away and destroy all the evidence of their relationship and then would leave him forever if this is possible, of course)

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Valeos
Last seen: 1 month 3 weeks ago
Joined: 11/23/2017 - 11:52
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Good day to all. Well, wow the news. If you want to know my opinion, I have such questions resolved very quickly, but this is about me, and as for that guy, the poor fellow, I do not even know, maybe I will agree with the guys who already wrote above that it is necessary to steal somehow blackmailers photo a video that there. But I would not be blackmailed by anyone, they would have protected their health)))) And no one else could blackmail, that's for sure))) There are such assholes in life, how do they just tolerate themselves !?indecision

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