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YourHubby
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betrayal

Everyone has different stages in our life. Good one and bad one. Nobody is safe from getting into some bad situations. Especially if you are gay. We do not have much support from other people. And thanks god if you are having a really nice family which can support you in any situation you are. But when it comes to the betrayal....How should we deal with the betrayal? Have any of you been betrayed? How did that happen? How did you feel? And what is real betrayal for you? What is a bigger betrayal: sex or mental betrayal? Would be glad to hear your answer

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Johnny
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betrayal

I never faced betrayal, thanks to God! And hope that it will never happen to me! Though i am sure that it is impossible to forgive a person who betrayed you once, cause you never know will this guy do it again in future or not....I heard a lot of cases when one guys betrayed the other one and his partner forgave him, but later everything was the same, that guy did not stop on cheating on his partner....That is sad :(

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Samuel
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For me, betrayal is physical one, as well mental. And actually I am not sure what of them is more serious and more important for me. Maybe mental one is worse, because if you are in relationships with someone, then you love, and trust him. When there is betrayal, I mean each of variant of it, then there is no trust!, and there is NOTHING!

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deril
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betrayal for me is painfull thing. Betrayal is the deal with conscience, not particularly loaded with intelligence people from whom there is no such thing as honor and dignity.. . The trust, of course, but the thing is that over time, all with great suspicion begin to treat people and when to trust, with caution ((( the People are the betrayal from their inexperience and ignorance, but such a little.. . But because of them the impression that there is no purity of feelings and relationships, no true friendship. Today its your best friend. Tomorrow he became your enemy.

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YourHubby
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It's a hard topic for me,because once I've been betrayed by a guy and it was one of the biggest pains I've ever felt in my entire life.It's a wild thing for me,as I never could understand how can one have somebody he loves back at home,and at the same time find somebody for him to bang somewhere else!It's disgusting to even think about stuff like that-and then he might lie to his boyfriend for some time,continuing to pound them both.Now ain't that a bitch!My reaction to this was the only one possible for me-turn around and walk away from that punk once and for all.

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Morningstar
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betrayal

Betrayal is probably the most devastating loss a person can experience. To be betrayed, the person must first experience trust in the betrayer. It is fairly impossible for you to be betrayed if you did not trust the individual in the first place. For me betrayal is both physical and mental. And can not even say what is worst - first or second. If you have been betrayed - do not think that this is the ned of the life. Keep liveing! Show your ex that he made a huge mistake - the biggest one in his life by betraying you! Make him sorry for what he has done with you!

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HappyDaddy
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When someone have betreyed you- you suffer quietly through disloyalty from a partner, friend, or family member, but this embeds harmful emotions deeply into our being. Our trust in others erodes if we don’t process the reality of betrayal and work through its painful impressions. But we should learn how to forgive. Forgiving does not mean accepting the wrong behavior of others; it means detaching from the pain, frustration, and bitterness buried within. Forgiveness breaks us free like a ship dislodging from a dock; life is our open sea when we pardon the past. But as long as we harbor hatred or anger against others, personal progress is stifled. Strive to forgive one person a day.

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YourHubby
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I think that it's a hard topic for me,because once I've been betrayed by a guy and it was one of the biggest pains I've ever felt in my entire life.It's a wild thing for me,as I never could understand how can one have somebody he loves back at home,and at the same time find somebody for him to bang somewhere else!It's disgusting to even think about stuff like that-and then he might lie to his boyfriend for some time,continuing to pound them both.Now ain't that a bitch!My reaction to this was the only one possible for me-turn around and walk away from that punk once and for all.

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Valeos
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Joined: 11/23/2017 - 11:52
betrayal

Hello my dear friends. Unfortunately I do not know about betrayal by hearsay. I've had one terrible betrayal in my life, and it's not in sexual terms but in moral. But this is not nearly easier, maybe even worse. Now   will not answer you for sure now. My boyfriend was a terrible usurper, I do not understand now how I could love this type, but still, that was, it was. When we had a child, just a little bit, he just disappeared forever. Here and so. I have suffered most of all the hardships of that time. But recovered and lived on.

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IamJack
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Joined: 01/21/2018 - 21:07
It's really very very hard to

It's really very very hard to confess that someone may betray you, but sometimes betrays happen in our life and we need to be ready for this. I don't know why people betray, but I think they do this because they are afraid to communicate with their second halves. None of my former bfs have betrayed me, but I used to know several couples who had to pass through this. I should say that these guys weren't frank with each other. They were hiding their desires from their partners. One of them didn't know how split up with his partner and decided to start dating another man. Yeah, it's not the best decision, but I am sure he wouldn't do this if he could speak with his beloved frankly...crying

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Alister
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Joined: 03/15/2018 - 06:54
Please do not blame yourself

Please do not blame yourself for not being able to magically leave all this in the past and live on as if nothing had happened. Perhaps her husband's infidelity has become at the moment the biggest shock in your life, and it poses a serious threat to your well-being, so I'm not surprised that the pain continually comes back, and the same thoughts revolve in my head. And you still can not understand how this monstrous betrayal could ever happen.Name your feelings out loud, instead of allowing them to endlessly bubbling somewhere inside - it really helps. Tell yourself: "I feel anger, I'm worried, I'm confused" or something else. You do not have to do anything with these feelings - it's enough to recognize them. Sometimes I ask my clients to start keeping a diary of feelings where they fix the time, the feeling and the reason that caused it at the moment (some event or thought). Lead it for a few days or weeks, and you will discover certain patterns. Believe: if you notice your feelings, watch them, and not suppress, they will gradually weaken and eventually become more manageable.

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