You must feel like a growing sense of responsibility. If you have no such desires, it is best to wait to have a child. Also, if you can not deal with the preparation of your own, contact a family planning center. There you will be given advice on the preparation of an individual for a baby. I think that such centers can bring a lot of quite good. Also, I heard that they have a number of psychologists, which can also carry out certain conversations to prepare you mentally for life with baby. I think it's really important to have a normal attitude to the entire process. Also, if you're prepared to have a child, everything will be much easier.
If we talk directly about psychological preparation for fatherhood, in this case a man should set it up in advance of the fact that the appearance of the baby will completely change not only the way of the family, but also a way of life. The responsibility for the education of the child should begin to evolve already when you just start to plan a baby. If a man of all this to the end will not be able to comprehend, while a child is best to wait. Today, there are a number of centers, contacting you can get all the necessary information as to how to approach the status of the father. But in addition, even the special literature can be useful.
Forget the sports car and buy a utility vehicle. Keep in mind that you will not be able to put it to the parking lot in front of the house. If you want to know how your car will look like, buy a batch of chocolate ice cream and place it behind the partition under the dashboard. The tape deck stick in a coin, then crush a larger package of chocolate chip cookies, crumbs and emptying into the back seat. At the end of a rake to scratch the hood. That, perhaps, will suffice. Memorize the names of all the heroes of television stories with Mickey Mouse. At the time, when you find that you are in the bathroom humming the opening melody cartoon series, you are prepared for the role of parents.
After the birth of a child you will need as soon as possible to adjust to the new conditions of life. The first time after the birth of a child can be quite complex, so the husband will have huge benefits, supporting his partner and helping to adapt to a new life. The newly fathers may find that with the advent of the child, their role in the family changed drastically. They switch to equal partnership in the position when the need to care for and maintain their half, so that he was able to switch all their attention on the baby. One of the main problems for newly fathers - to find someone with whom you can talk about things they pass.
Psychologists advise to meet more often with friends who have small children. First, an example of other men can coerce a spouse to demographic feats. Second, he will be able to make sure that families with children also find time to drink beer with friends, go to the movies or out to a country picnic. Third, understand that the child is not so terrible and always screaming creature, after some practice it is quite possible to get your hands on, soothe and even manage to change his diaper. In recent decades in Europe and the United States began to talk about a "new model of fatherhood" in these countries are popular school for future dads, whose students learn to care for the child, to find contact with them, communicate and play.
well, it is better to be rather prepared fully - in all aspects, like, financial, phycological, and physical too. but I guess that in this case, the homosexually oriented couples have more possibilities for this... because it does not happen occasionally that the gay couple gonna become fathers! of course not, this is nonsense... as usual, they are planning very carefully the whole process and during this, they are totally prepared for everything. Despite this, the heterosexual couples are more exposed to have "unexpected happy moment of the life" in the face of the future kid... this is all because of the nature of the pregnancy, I do not have to explain you anything.
"No matter how wonderful children are, they tend to destroy fragile relationships more often than to strengthen them," many psychologists say .If there have been problems before the appearance of children, they are usually only exacerbated. "A study at the University of San Diego found that the level of satisfaction with relationships is on the average 50% lower among young parents than among couples without children.While (or months) lack of sleep, lack of free time and thousands of new troubles associated with the child, can even undermine even a strong alliance. as a building: it must be earthquake-proof, because the child is 9 points on the Richter scale.
hello guys. Nice to be here. This topic is very hard and deep. Always when i walk through the streets and see mothers with their babies i become happy. I like children, i want in future have children. But i think i am not ready yet. Yes, it is great to walk to the park with baby carriage, but be parent is not only that. You should give your child education, love, attention and all your free time. Now these points frighten me, so this is why i understand, that it is early for me. I am only 22 years old, i can live for myself at least 4-5 years more. And what do you think?
Hello my dear friends. I can give you a couple of tips on your subject, since I already have the experience of being a father. Undoubtedly, parenting is a very responsible duty or work. And before making a decision to have a baby, it is necessary to understand for yourself that you will never leave the responsibility, you have given life to a new little man so do everything necessary to teach everything necessary for the life of your child. In order that he then himself could make decisions and draw conclusions and be responsible for his life. If you need, read the relevant literature, go to a psychologist, this is normal.
Often men who are preparing to become fathers, do not tend to think about these ghostly things as psychological health. For many, the decision to begin work on a sequel of sorts so given "sweat and blood".
Besides, who is in our difficult times can boast of iron nerves and "tank" tranquility? And indeed, a man's job a little - in fact, to conceive an heir - the process itself is quite nice. They do not need to bear a child to sit in queues antenatal clinic, experience labor pains, to establish breastfeeding, and stroked the sliders on both sides, showing miracles of patience and emotional stability.
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