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Adam
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To be ready to be a father

Hello my friends. I have a fairly common question among men who have already taken important decisions in their lives. I really want to become a father. And I really dream to have a baby in the next year or two. But above all, I heard that I should have some preparation. I must have training in order to feel well, my future child. I must have psychological and moral preparation. I'm not talking about a lot of knowledge about the child, which are necessary for the future parents. But I want to talk about the morale and sense of responsibility. What do you think about it? Is it important to be prepared to have a child? Is it important to prepare mentally to become a father? And maybe someone can tell his thoughts about how can I do it?

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Barboro
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To be ready to be a father

Often men who are preparing to become fathers, do not tend to think about these ghostly things as psychological health. For many, the decision to begin work on a sequel of sorts so given "sweat and blood". Besides, who is in our difficult times can boast of iron nerves and "tank" tranquility? And indeed, a man's job a little - in fact, to conceive an heir - the process itself is quite nice. They do not need to bear a child to sit in queues antenatal clinic, experience labor pains, to establish breastfeeding, and stroked the sliders on both sides, showing miracles of patience and emotional stability.

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Adam
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To be ready to be a father

Psychologists say that for the future daddy it is very important to be in a state of emotional balance. And not just because he had to stoically endure all the whims and mood swings his partner. Psychological problems can become a hindrance to the implementation of the main mission is fertilization. Studies indicate that chronic fatigue syndrome and constant stress suffered by many residents of cities can act destructively on the family, which has just received a baby. Nature is arranged so that the offspring are born in the most favorable conditions. Nervous and reproductive system of humans are closely related.

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Adam
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To be ready to be a father

"Control centers" of the brain the hypothalamus and pituitary gland - are responsible for the production of both stress and reproductive hormones. In men who are in a constant nervous tension, reduced testosterone levels and the ability to produce sperm. The stress people are less likely to have sex, if not lose interest in it. In addition, some are beginning to smoke more or to get involved with alcohol did not increase the chances to conceive healthy children (if you use the method of surrogate motherhood). There is an inverse relationship, men are very painful experience, if, despite all their efforts to their sperm is not good to have a child (even throw surrogacy).

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Milton
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To be ready to be a father

Psychological readiness expressed by the fact that the parents, on the one hand rely on themselves and nature, and on the other, maturely evaluate the changes in your life that will occur with the advent of the child. Future fathers with a high level of preparedness plans to take a direct part in the upbringing of the child. Often they attend courses for parents. The birth of the baby becomes for them one of the most vivid emotional experiences and a major event in my life. For such fathers characterized by the desire to love and take care of the child, take care of it from the very first days of life, and later - to transmit his knowledge and experience.

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Johnson
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To be ready to be a father

Men with low levels of readiness weakly present themselves in the role of father and often perceive the unborn child as a burden. After the birth of the baby they are very restrained show their feelings. Many people prefer to keep aloof from the childcare, assuming it is only his partner's work. Men, not ready for fatherhood, can not get joy and pleasure from contact with his son. Attitude to paternity in men with an average availability level is ambiguous. They experience conflicting feelings about the birth of the child. Typically, these fathers take on certain responsibilities - for example, on weekends walk with a stroller or helping bathe the baby. But you should be prepared to be a good father!

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Ismual
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To be ready to be a father

According to psychologists, preparation for fatherhood begins in childhood. Observing the relationship between the parents, the boy unconsciously borrows role model behavior and distribution adopted in the family. Like his father treated his parental responsibilities? if he took an active part in the upbringing of his son if "disciplining authority" was a role model, mentor or friend? Maybe he preferred to while away the evening on the couch with the newspaper or watching television? Or it is included in the educational process, when the son has grown up and with him became possible to play in football or "manly talk"?

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Ivaniko
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To be ready to be a father

Can I ensure my family? Perhaps this is one of the main fears of the future pope. While his wife is sitting with a child, a man often becomes the sole earner funds. whether the family could live on one of his salary? Often these fears are not without foundation, for example, if a company's position in the market is unstable, planned reductions, labor cost is not always made in a timely manner, etc. I think that first of all, every man has to cope with some of his fears and to understand that he must feel responsible. I think this is a very important element of any training to become a father. If a man is ready, he will be ready to have a child.

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Alfronto
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To be ready to be a father

Of course, it is important to try to avoid stressful situations and to optimize its load at work. Time management sometimes leads to surprising results - out of nowhere, there is precious free time. Maybe you always wanted to get out into nature, or wander around the city with a camera, lie on the couch with a book or just a good night's rest? Sometimes it is possible to combine the pleasant with the useful - for example, exercise is not only perfectly relieve stress, but also strengthen physical health. You should feel that you really want to have a child. And you're completely ready for anything, what you will encounter in the process.

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Gongorini
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To be ready to be a father

Some men are able to stop the labor feats only once thousands of kilometers away from the workplace. On vacation they relax, forget about the problems of the workers and completely relax body and soul. The atmosphere of the resort, the sea, the mountains and the trees have to romance, so many couples "bring" the child because of travel. Psychologists are also advised to meet more often with friends who have small children. First, an example of other men can coerce a spouse to demographic feats (all have children, why i do not have them ?!). Second, he will be able to make sure that families with children also find time to drink beer with friends, go to the movies or out to a country picnic.

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Ignatio
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To be ready to be a father

In preparation for the birth of an heir, it is important not to overreact. The abundance of literature and videos about pregnancy, childbirth and child care, can lead to the opposite effect for a long time and avert you from the thought of childbirth. If you are concerned about the possible financial difficulties - try with your partner to plan costs, draw up a budget for the birth of a child, to optimize financial affairs. Certain monetary savings will help to feel confidence in the future. If you are not satisfied with the work, of course, take care to search for a more stable and better-paid place before conception.

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