For children, the most important and valuable it is to be loved. Plants reach for the sun to live. Also, our children, are drawn to those who sincerely loves them and appreciates. So if you're not in words, but in reality they show their love, devotion, warmth and care, they will never commit an act that may disappoint you. And taking a great solution for them, they will first consult with you and not with your friends. I do not mean that to give enough love for your child, you must be all your time alone with him, but you should always be there when your child needs you. With your work it can be difficult.
Many believe and teach people that have to become parents, that life after the appearance does not change in the child's family. This is fundamentally wrong. With the advent of a new man in your life changed everything. Everything that used to be in the first place goes by the wayside. The nearest 15-18 years, the most important concern in your life are the children. You should understand first of all that the child needs a very big responsibility. And it's not enough just to have a the child and use the nanny that she was worried about him. You should worry about your the child in the first place. And I do not know how you're going to do it, when you almost do not have free time from work.
Children - this is a great joy, but at the same time, the greatest responsibility. Children are what is left with you navsegda. Friends, work, thoughts and beliefs, even spouses can come and go, the children remain till the end! The most difficult thing in the upbringing and care of children - to give up some, and sometimes many activities that were important to you before. Gradually, you will give up all that consumes your time. I think that when you have a question about your child, you should be very attentive to all that can lead to negative consequences. And if your work will disturb you pay enough attention to your child, you must leave it and find something easier.
Many couples, especially those who have lived a long life together before the birth of the child, believe that it is possible to combine entertainment, hobby, active lifestyle as before, and to be perfect parents. It's a delusion. Yes, you can surf, chat for unlimited time with friends, friends, family, practice your favorite hobby, etc. without children. But when a baby comes, if not the end of this all, then at least a temporary lull. This is completely normal and natural. We must understand that when a child is in our family, we take more responsibility for the new life. We need to give maximum care for our child to be able to grow a good guy or a girl.
In fact, from the moment of birth, your life changes. All things go by the wayside. First of all, you now need to deal with a child. You and only you by 99% affecting its character development, feelings and emotions, in general, the fact how the rest of his entire future life. Each child, and yours is no exception needs attention. It is a truism, but few parents understand this. And someone simply forgets. All children need their parents a lot more attention than any the nanny in this world. The same goes for your unborn child. I think that we should not use babysitting completely. Sometimes we have to sacrifice something for the sake of our children.
Attention from parents - such as the need of each child, as the need for food and walks in the fresh air. Give your child as much attention as possible. Everyday! Every spare moment! How to give as much attention as the baby needs? Of course, the answer suggests itself - to increase the amount of attention. Easy to say but hard to do! Yes, and how to determine this level? We all work, we have a lot to do. Millions of men around the world every day go to work, cook breakfast, lunch and dinner, washed and ironed, clean. There will be a thousand things that definitely need to do! But we must remember the child first and foremost.
When will you become a father, you have to be with your child. I think that the work is not the most important thing in our life even if you have a question about a career. When your baby will get a little older, get a habit from now on be given to your child every 15-30 minutes of time in the next 90 days. Do not just turn on a cartoon and go to the kitchen and read the story, to draw together, polepit, cook together eat, listen to the child, to talk about how was your day. Go to the theater, cinema, skating rink in the park. Go the whole family! You will not notice, as 15 to 30 minutes each day radically change your life and your relationship with your child!
When you devote enough time to your child, you will also feel some positive emotions. Believe me, I do not have personal experience with this, but I see my friends with their children. They enjoy every free minute together with their children. You will experience an incredible happiness and pride in what you do. After all, only 15% of parents give 30 minutes a day to communicate with your child! Be better than 75%! Stand on a par with the best parents of the world! Believe me, when the time will pass, your child will remember that you were always there for him and helped him in all his affairs. It is really important for every child in this world.
Perhaps you do not have to leave your job, when you will become a father. But then you've got to do something about your life. Because you have to give enough time to your child. Or maybe you can with your partner to change and take care of your child at different times. Plan your day so that enough time and work and family. Make every day first case related to these two areas of your life, and only then deal with the rest. I think that if each of us will plan his day, he will always be able to find free time for the things that really matter to him. What could be more important than your child for you?
The most important thing you have - your family and home. Spend as much time as is possible to at home with their loved ones. At work, the main thing is the quality, the main house is the number! Always spend your free time to good use. For example, when traveling with a child in the car, do not turn on the player. It is much more important to talk with your child about his feelings, plans, events in his life than listen to your favorite song on the radio or news. Of course, I'm telling you all this in the near future, but I hope that's your idea of being a father, really serious. In addition, each family must have children.
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