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Vincent
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Attention to the child (baby)

Hello friends! I want to talk about children today. I think that it's always just an amazing story. In addition, children are always the best thing that we can see in this world. Our world is cruel, and at the same time when I look at the children, I understand that they are our hope. I do not have children yet, but I plan it together with my partner. And I want to talk about the importance of attention to the child. What do you think about it? As far as child may need our attention? My problem is that I and my partner have very serious work, which occupies most of the time during the day. And we just can not pay enough attention to our child. I thought about the babysitter for him ... But I have some doubts. And I read that the child may need parental attention is really a lot. So I want to know your opinion about it. Maybe I should just leave my job for the sake of our child for some time?

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Vincent
Last seen: 1 year 11 months ago
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Attention to the child (baby)

Parents are the closest to our people; their behavior and attitude towards us leaves its mark on life. However, often for work and personal problems they spend too much time, which loses the child. Is he not worthy of attention that you pay to read, talk on the phone, sitting at the computer and in front of TV? Because your baby is special! In addition, I also think that the nanny can not be a really good option for you just because your child will get used to see her all his life. I think that the time may come when your child will think that your nanny is his mom or dad. So I think it's better to leave your job for a couple of years at least.

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Barboro
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Attention to the child (baby)

Do everything possible so that the child does not feel the lack of attention and fully developed; you can make a "qualitative contribution" to its future. Conscious approach to the issue of communication, it should not be uncomfortable: sit on the floor, face to face, look the kid in the eye and talk with him (perhaps will speak only you), let the child see your smile, hear your voice, feel your touch . Be patient, and energetic (nap when the son or daughter is sleeping, and replenish stamina), play educational games, the appropriate age of the child. I mean that your child needs the attention of his parents above all. He does not need the nanny.

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Vincent
Last seen: 1 year 11 months ago
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Attention to the child (baby)

Repeat: "I am proud of you! a good sport! very good! "(The kid feels your good mood and will be delighted promotion.) Do not wait until the child asks to pay attention to him. themselves begin to play, talk, hug and kiss him first. (If the child is ignored, it will not behave themselves only in order to be noticed.) Help your child become independent and at the same time, confidence in your love and ready at any moment to come to his aid. Do not abandon any of his children. Many parents allow a very serious mistake when they think that they can just have a the child and did not give him enough attention.

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Vincent
Last seen: 1 year 11 months ago
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Attention to the child (baby)

In the upbringing of her son should take the place of the championship is the father, as the baby will always catch men's habits in relation to the family. The child tries to imitate his father. The proper education of the son of man must put himself more rigid compared to his partner gentle nature. At the same time, without any aggression and vio, it should be strictly, otherwise the child you dispel aggression. Dad, like no one else, should just support your baby, give good advice and, of course, once and regret. This is the proper upbringing of the future man. I think it is necessary. Well no nanny, just daddy!

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Milton
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Attention to the child (baby)

The child has their own needs, and those needs change as they grow older, but in the early stages of the child is essential to feel safe, comfort, affection, care later are added to the inherent requirements of an adult is a need for knowledge, development, self-esteem, freedom, etc. . But above all, every child needs the most attention from his parents. All of this because these are the only people in the world whom he could trust. It edinsvtennye people in this world, from which he hopes to get so much warmth, kindness and caring as possible. And when someone decides to use a nanny instead of its own responsibilities, he breaks contact with his child.

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Johnson
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Attention to the child (baby)

Parents (legal representatives) entrusted a great responsibility for the upbringing of their children. Parents have the right and obligation to raise their children. Parents are responsible for the upbringing and development of their children. They are obliged to take care of the health, physical, mental, spiritual and moral development of their children ... I urge you not to ignore your children. It is much better to leave your job for one or two years, than completely ruin any relationship with your child. Especially the first time your baby needs you completely. And every parent needs to understand this.

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Ismual
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Attention to the child (baby)

For children it is very important to get the attention and care. At the same time parents give their children a love for life, but in the period up to 9 years should be to focus on the care and attention, and then, from 9 to 18, to focus on trust. And when a child who has no protection in the world, except for his father, calling him for help, praying his mind, and he does not come, then he has a deep imprint in the consciousness remains. He then grows up and thinks: "So, well, here everything is clear, it is necessary to do everything without the help of someone, walking on heads, if I need something." The boy grows up and becomes like a wild animal, and the girl is constantly engaged in self-torture.

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Ivaniko
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Attention to the child (baby)

It turns out that the care and attention are very important things in a child's life, until he was 9 years old. Especially for girls, so that they can grow into healthy women. They just need to bathe in this love, constantly fiddle with them. Do not make washing dishes or floors, and more involved in their lives. It is noteworthy that if the parents will behave in a similar way, the daughter she will take the initiative to help around the house. In any case, regardless of the sex of their child, they need maximum of your attention. And you must understand that the nanny can not replace your child for your kindness and concern. He needs you in the first place.

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Alfronto
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Attention to the child (baby)

In 99 cases out of 100 reasons to be naughty, confusion, hysteria and other difficulties in the relationship between parents and children, it is not a child, and parents. If the child does not listen, the reason is you, not the child. You need to understand it in your behavior, and only then think about how we can help your child. Thus, the first and main reason - the lack of attention. As corny as it may sound. Think now, how often do you pay attention to your child if he does not cry, does not arrange hysterics, fully operates as you want it? If you're going to use a the nanny for the education of your child when you're at work, you will get all these unpleasant surprises.

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Gongorini
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Attention to the child (baby)

Today it is very difficult to give the child a lot of time and attention. Parents usually spend much time at work. However, it is not necessary to spend 24 hours a day with a child for he had received as much attention as they need. Just become for him a friend, a man who loves it in all circumstances, and that did not happen. Become those who truly loves and appreciates the support in any situation. Our children do not understand that we have to work and the importance of all our work. And we must also pomnimat that we are the most important people for our child. No need to try to avoid our responsibility to our children, we must give them the maximum of our attention.

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