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Are children important?

but you are talking about children only as about the continuation of the generation, of the human species, and nothing else, and frankly speaking, I do not agree with such kind of the position at all...! nevertheless, if to add something here too, I would like to mention that we are all here thinking a lot about the tricks of the upbringing process, but this knowledge does not give the real parenting feeling... so, what I have been thinking about... children are important because giving the birth and raising the child is the huge responsibility. will you be able to deal with this??!  Objectively thinking, I am still not fully prepared for this step..

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Are children important?

Why do we need children? As a rule, we never ask ourselves this question. The question "do I want a child or do not want?" Is more common. Sometimes it happens that the child takes the decision to be and is born without asking for our consent. When the child is already there, we do not ask why we need it, we just live and try to fulfill all our parental responsibilities to the best of our ability and in accordance with our picture of the world. I wanted to answer because at some point I felt that I had caught this "why?". Moreover, it seems to me that in many parents this is (and maybe even in everyone), it's just that no one talks about it. Nobody talks about what is the most important reason, why it is worth giving birth and raising a child. After all, we were born and brought up in order to solve some parental problems. And now it is difficult for us to live our lives, and we saturate it with the problems and tasks of our child, losing our lives and not letting our children decide in their own way.

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Are children important?

Hi guys. What a stupid question about whether children are important in our lives ?! I agree that there are different types of people and how many people, so many opinions. But is it really possible not to want a child categorically? And not because to leave a trace in life or for someone to give you a glass of water in old age. I very much sympathize with your partner, that he can not find complete happiness and have a child. Children, this is our everything. Maybe you just do not have enough responsibility. This is the problem.

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You know this is the key to

You know this is the key to meaning in life. Living for something other than yourself. Ask not what the world can do for you, ask what you can do for the world. That’s why kids are important. It is very difficult to ignore the primal instinct to do everything you can to look after your kids. To protect them from the world. To help get as far ahead in life as possible. Kids make you unselfish. They give you purpose. They suck you out of the natural tendency to do everything for yourself. And purpose is the answer to happiness and long life. Some people already have purpose. But many people don’t… many people are searching… and when children come the search is ended.

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You know I could understand

You know I could understand why people don't want to have children. There could be cultural, medical or personal issues involved. It's a huge responsibility, raising a child. Maybe the responsibility deters one from producing.

The population of Earth continues to grow. However, (god forbid me from saying this) nature tends to weed out the population whether through war, disease, famine and etc. It's a circle of life. They say every 50 years, a substantial amount of people die. Just nobody notices... It's not for me to judge if a person wants to have children or not. However, life must be pretty lonely even with a spouse

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You know I’m amazed at how

You know I’m amazed at how people, especially women with children, can manage a fulltime job on top of parenting. They often appear to be exhausted and less than enthusiastic about being at work, and it’s apparent that they’re spread too thin.

The world will be less crowded and resources less depleted. Think about a future with fewer mouths to feed and the possibility that we might restore diminishing natural resources such as life in the sea and fresh water. I am hearing more and more young people these day say that parenting is not a given, and I’m hopeful that only those who truly want to be parents will become moms and dads

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 children are very important

 children are very important and not only because they will remain after me bringing a part of me (I don't mean only biological part of me, the code of my genes. If a child is not biologically mine, adopted, this child also carries a part of me, a part of my soul which I gave him\her loving him\her and caring about him\her) to his\her children and to the further generations.

Children are important because they bring us reason to live, they bring sense to our life and they love us unconditionally, just because we exist, whether we are fat or thin, rich or poor, famous or unknown

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 Even what we know from our

 Even what we know from our own experience can have a different explanation. The only question is what kind of explanation we will take, in what we will believe. And some explanation for everything that we see, hear, know, we still have to accept. And when we do this, when we determine our convictions - we will endow them with power, allowing them to control our lives. Consequently, your current beliefs largely govern your life and your behavior. And if you do not like your life for some reason, it makes sense to think about these beliefs and, if possible and necessary, revise them.

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The second stage - the stage

The second stage - the stage of resistance, causes the body to adapt to the test voltage. The body begins to get used to aggression and pressure, if they last too long, and becomes more resistant to an unfavorable situation.

This habituation allows the body to avoid exhaustion, thus compensating for the stress caused by energy consumption. The person at this stage experiences internal stress, which leads him to anxiety, fatigue, forgetfulness. He decides how he should react to the stress situation, or how to get along with it.


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Or a man, take a wife as a

Or a man, take a wife as a bitch, and then says that she does not respect him, commands him as he wants, and builds eyes to all the men in a row, and he, the poor fellow, is jealous of her constantly and suffers because of this. Friends, these things need to be taken seriously. It's about people going, and not about any things from the store. Try to choose for yourself the companions and companions of life with the mind, for the heart in such matters often fails. A normal person will not give you the slightest reason for jealousy, but on the contrary, help get rid of self-doubt and those fears that make you jealous.


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