Ask forgiveness, as for me, is one of the most important, and actually the most needed things in serious relationships, or in family matters. All of us are not perfect ones, all of us make mistakes almost everyday. We should remember that our relationships with our partners are the main things ever,so we should appreciate every minute with them. You don't have to apologize, when you don't feel it. You should do it, when you really feel that it is essential for you, your partner, and for your family as a whole. Don't afraid of doing it, especially when you are really wrong. Your pride and apology are not the same.
It is understood that since there are no perfect people and make mistakes all, sooner or later you or your loved one is required to do anything wrong. You or is offended, angry you'll pout may decide to make him something to spite or three days will not talk to him. This happened if any household trifle, shall we say. And if there was a conflict was associated with something more serious? For example, the fact that it is essential for you, something that you think is valuable or critical. These troubles occur not only in personal or family relationships, but also in working and friendly relations. In any case, the approach will still be the same.
To ask for forgiveness, it requires a lot of moral strength. True forgiveness - is the deepest treasure of civilized man. Forgiveness is the power to fix the relationship between two people, between groups of people, between nations, and so on. Forgiveness can heal the pain caused by self-esteem and reduce the harm caused by humiliation. But despite the importance of forgiveness, we do not know how to apologize. Therefore, it would be nice to learn how to properly ask for forgiveness for each person, so that the position of "do not ever apologize for anything," sooner or later lead to a breach of relations and, possibly, to isolation.
The most common and the most potent reasons for the request for pardon is, without any doubt, causing personal injury. Ignoring, underestimating, unfair accusation, betrayal, public humiliation, and these other things can cause serious damage. I am sure that very often quite sincerely ask for forgiveness. Some people do not understand that you really feel bad about the thing that you have done for some mistake for him. And then they can not respond to your attempts to improve relations. But in any case I am sure that each of us should try to do these steps. Above all, we must believe that it will help fix our relationship.
Is it important to ask for forgiveness? It does not measure whether this weakness? Such questions can only arise from frustrated individuals. The apology is the recognition of our mistakes, our awareness of being wrong. So ask forgiveness is not a sign of weakness or lack of character. A sign of perfectionism and inflated self-importance. Mistakes make all people without exception. You can not even unwittingly, to offend, insult, or to hurt a loved one, friend or colleague. Because of your missteps and did not recognize his mistake, it will destroy the relationship. But it is important not just to ask for forgiveness, it is important to know how to apologize properly.
Do not apologize if you do not feel guilty or wrong. In this case, your opponent feels false. Also, do not try to patch a hole in a relationship not by words but by actions. It seems to you that it is worth to correct their mistake, they hurt your people will understand and forgive. In fact, it is not easy and does not understand. At this can only units, but they can be counted among the saints. And yet, it says forgiveness is that you care about this person. I think that when you ask for forgiveness from someone very important to show your sincerity. The main thing to prove this guy that you really understand the problem, and you really want to fix it.
Good morning everybody. How is your mood? I have a wonderful mood today, and the weather can not but rejoice))) I believe that there are things in life that can not be forgiven, you can more accurately forgive a person, but no longer communicate with him. I had such situations when I was betrayed, very deceived ... I immediately stopped talking with such people and explained to them in an accessible language that for me such actions are unacceptable. And on trifles, you can forgive, if it does not repeat.
I think we should be frank with our beloved whatever we do and of course tell him about our feelings. Bad things sometimes happen and we should be ready for this. When I see that I've hurt my beloved or caused him pain, I always apologize. It isn't very easy to do this but sometimes I have to confess that I was wrong. The same did most of men I used to date. For me being frank with each other and being ready to confess mistakes are essential parts of any relationships.
Very interesting. To ask for forgiveness and to forgive - it is the most important skills in the relationship. Without mistakes, conflicts and bullying can be neither one long-term relationship. Hurt, pain, anger often interrupt the emotional bond between close loving people. It is very frequent manipulation offended person in the sense of guilt, shame the offender when silence pout on minor occasions forcing partner, unable to endure the rejection of silence, ask for forgiveness and to drive up on different goats to the offended. This is another in a complex pattern of relationships. I think that from time to time, it may change the situation.
You know the most effective way to ask for forgiveness all know from an early age, when we just approached the parents to take offense at us and said: "Excuse me." Having said this word, you simply makes it clear that realize their mistakes. Of course, you have to listen to reproaches, and perhaps many of them will be fair, and, therefore, it is useful to make clear that you are aware of the depth of the fault and its ready "to atone." If you belong to the category of people who generally can not forgive forgiveness, then your position is not easy, because you experience everything in yourself and get a double punishment. The easiest way to those who, without delving into the problem can apologize a hundred times in a row.
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