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Mike
Last seen: 1 year 4 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 09:24
Apologize

Guys! What do you think about the mistakes that we make in our relationships? What do you think about the problems that occur because of our relationship with our beloved? But first of all I want to ask whether we should ask forgiveness? Are we to ask forgiveness from our spouse when we have done something wrong, what we regret? How important is it to have the opportunity to ask for forgiveness? I understand that we can have a completely different situation. But in any case, most of the problems can be solved through a simple apology when we repent of our mistake. How do you think it might be important to staying in the relationship?

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Vincent
Last seen: 1 year 1 month ago
Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:02
Apologize

To ask for forgiveness and to forgive - it is the most important skills in the relationship. Without mistakes, conflicts and bullying can be neither one long-term relationship. Hurt, pain, anger often interrupt the emotional bond between close loving people. It is very frequent manipulation offended person in the sense of guilt, shame the offender when silence pout on minor occasions forcing partner, unable to endure the rejection of silence, ask for forgiveness and to drive up on different goats to the offended. This is another in a complex pattern of relationships. I think that from time to time, it may change the situation.

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Mike
Last seen: 1 year 4 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 09:24
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It can be incredibly difficult crisis situation for spouses. It is clear that change, often has the contribution of both spouses, but it decided to break the boundaries of apostate, he took responsibility for the infliction of pain for the partner. Most of the change the following freezing of feelings, "falling asleep" the one who changed. In this situation, there can be different outcomes: divorce, separation, mutual infidelity, peaceful coexistence at the level of proximity between neighbors, at all levels of war, a bad peace, ignoring the reality - to live as if nothing had happened. But even when we are simply trying to understand the problem and ask for forgiveness - it can change at least something for the better.

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Mike
Last seen: 1 year 4 months ago
Joined: 07/08/2016 - 09:24
Apologize

From time to time, we may prevent very serious mistakes and offenses. In these cases, there is a certain distancing of the spouses, if not a complete emotional isolation. If there is a desire to understand, to restore the emotional connection, it is necessary conversation about the reasons for infidelity or other boundary violations, which would like, which may not be enough in a relationship. To understand what was needed cheating / aggression. Is it possible to get the required other way: to stop the flow of battle wife not assault and battery, and the words, or the fact that it will stop without violence. How to get the attention of a spouse, to ensure their attractiveness, get more sex, emotional warmth from his spouse.

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Milton
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:04
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It is a necessary step in the restoration of relations - is repentance and forgiveness. Sincere recognition of the damage, a sense of guilt for the pain and suffering. And with the injured party - the forgiveness, removal of guilt from the offender for their suffering and recognition of their contribution and responsibility for what happened. Restoring relations - mutual process of movement towards each other. If the penitent asks for forgiveness, but he was not forgiven, the relationship is not restored. If you forgive the unrepentant - this is the beginning mazahisticheskogo travel, where the responsibility of one partner and the other free hand.

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Johnson
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:04
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Often unilateral painful relationships are formed in a pair of exactly where broken opportunity to ask for forgiveness and to forgive, and then - to take their share of responsibility and co-cultivate their relationship. Repentance and forgiveness - it is an opportunity to see the situation, do not turn back the clock and relive it, to experience sadness, loss of certain illusions, become wiser, more experienced, to assess the important thing in a relationship, a new look at what is happening with fresh eyes. I really believe that almost any problem in the relationship can be solved with the help of ordinary forgiveness.

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Ismual
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:04
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There are situations where the dependent person sincerely asks for forgiveness, lying in the legs, with tears asking to forgive him. But what happens the next stall, the situation gets out of his control: he again drink / receives, beats, change. Here forgiveness - this is not the way to restore the contact. This is a desperate attempt to survive a difficult situation. In this case, treatment of the whole family. Another important moment in relations between parents and children, it occurs when children grow up, separated from their parents and begin to express them their grievances endured. It is difficult and often unbearable to hear the parents, because each in its own way has invested in the development and education of the child, and tried to give him something that he did not have in childhood.

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Ivaniko
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:05
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We all know how difficult it is to ask for forgiveness from those closest and our favorite people. Anyone can forget any debt, but not those who are dear to us. Anyone can easily say this is the magic word - "sorry", but not the one who is waiting for him from us the most. What are ways to apologize, without much effort and without damaging your self-esteem? I think that it is always hard enough. Simply because if we really want to apologize to someone, it has to be sincere. And when one of us feels guilt about any situation, it is always hard enough to admit our fault and ask sincere for forgiveness.

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Alfronto
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:05
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If between people appear trifling differences, then ask for forgiveness, they prefer a theatrical way, that is: to wring his hands, tearfully begging and even beat my head against the wall. Such a prayer of forgiveness makes the other side laugh and restore relations. It is very easy to close the gap in the relationship, if the bribe insulted. In this case we are not talking about bribery in a sealed envelope. We're talking about how to ask for forgiveness, doing some nice upset for human action. For example, to show more attention, care, buy a gift, to make concessions. But above all, we must ask for forgiveness from the heart, if we want to get the same forgiveness.

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Gongorini
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:05
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A very good way to ask for forgiveness - in a letter or SMS-ke. It is much more effective than the oral explanation, at which the prepared words are lost, and his voice betrays or unconvincing. But received a letter will be read more than once, of course, if it does not tear during delivery. For written expression of regret about the incident have to happen and oral explanation that will convince the person that you were writing a letter with a pure heart. In addition, when you use email to ask for forgiveness - you can be sure that someone will read it. Because often people, to whom we feel guilt - just do not want to communicate with us.

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Ignatio
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Joined: 07/12/2016 - 10:05
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In any case, the conflict is best resolved by a call on a sick theme. This conversation (in a calm tone, and conditioned) should put an end to the dispute, to resolve the claim, who caused offense to another person. All the arguments, it is desirable to state clearly and very clear. At the same time, you can not ask for forgiveness, not having listened to the arguments of arguing with your hand. If you do not find understanding, then even leaving unsolved the problem, explain directly that do not agree with the views of the opponent, so leave the question open. Agree with the views unacceptable to you for settlement of the conflict vis - then lay the foundation for the new divisions.

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