Hello all my friends and just acquaintances. Comfort zone is certainly good ... but if you want to live just like you are now living and have what you have, then of course you are in this zone and nothing will change. But you can not change anything in your life without leaving the comfort zone. This does not happen. Therefore, you just have to decide and leave this zone and try to do something new, not necessarily what you will get the first time ... but still worth a try, otherwise you will not learn anything new, except that you already have there is.
I used to know one guy who was afraid to leave his comfort zone. He had a good salary and his own appartment, but he was always unsatisfied with his life. He told me that he wanted to work in another company and earn more. He wanted to learn something new and change his character. He was always in a bad mood, and everytime I started to advise him something he told me that I shouldn't teach him. This was my ex-boyfriend. Firstly, I felt very bad because he was always in a bad mood, but then I saw that just likes living this way. Yeah, it was his comfort zone and he didn't want to change anything in his life. He just needed a guy who would sympathize him and let him ruin his life. For me, comfort zone isn't something bad, but I wouldn't rely on it much.
You know the best way to find a solution to any problem - fully explore it. It is really good way to deal with everything! But wait -- think about the most lovable, magnetic people you've come across in your life. Odds are, they weren't the meek, agreeable people who are reliably pleasant to be around. They were the people who were crazy and charming. People who blurted out silly, maybe inappropriate things, or who made huge, slap-your-forehead mistakes, or who were over the top most of the time, but others forgave them for being less than perfect and in fact, liked them for it. So shatter your concern for what people think of you.
You know the way I think – cannot be correct always. But usually I'm very self-critical. So perhaps my knowledge can help. The most scientific explanation of what a comfort zone is relates it to anxiety levels. Your comfort zone is any type of behavior that keeps you at a steadily low anxiety level. Imagine something you do all the time, like cooking dinner or commuting to work, or watching TV. Everyday activities that you’re used to won’t make you feel anxious and uneasy, so they’re part of your comfort zone. Although people often refer to ‘getting outside your comfort zone’ in terms of trying new things, anything that raises your anxiety levels can be counted as being outside that zone.
As a rule, the younger a person, the easier and more willingly he leaves the comfort zone. The more developed a person, the faster and more skillfully he learns new areas of life, begins to act confidently and efficiently there. When a healthy person lingers for a long time in the comfort zone and does not make any efforts to leave this zone and expand its borders, its development stops, turning into degradation of the individual.The way out of the comfort zone is experienced in different ways: how "curious", "interesting", and "difficult", "terrible" (discomfort). If the exit from the zone is associated with a person with discomfort, discomfort should not be arranged for a long time and, if possible, balanced with a vision of life prospects - otherwise the motivation falls.
Get rid of indecisiveness. The longer the brain tries to justify your cowardice, the more time you will spend on panic about the hypothetical negative results of the situation. If you need to catch a spider, jump out of the plane, call someone on a date, do it without hesitation, provided that you are really going to do it.
When you manage to overcome fear, consolidate your success by encouraging. This can be expressed both in material encouragement (for example, in a bottle of good wine) and intangible (for example, in the form of a taken pause from social intercourse and viewing several issues of your favorite TV show at once).
A good manipulator, that is, a person who skillfully owns hidden psychological methods - is much stronger than an armed man to the teeth. Why? Because he can induce a variety of people to the actions necessary to him and thus solve any problems and tasks. And what problems and tasks can a man armed with a weapon habitual in our understanding understand? Only a few, right? The strength of weapons has its limitations. But there are no restrictions at manipulations. You can manipulate all people, without exception, as the most ordinary, and the most powerful and powerful. The only limitation is your own abilities. The more advanced your skills of manipulation, the more people you can manipulate. At the same manipulations, there are no restrictions - you can manipulate any person.
Here I am correcting this disgrace with the help of my method - I encourage a person to think, think, meditate, break his head, strain the convolutions. I teach people to always try to think first, and only then make a decision and do something. Fortunately, in most situations in our lives, we have time to think about it.
Thus, with the help of my method, people are accustomed to giving conscious, deliberate answers to all the questions that other people and life place before them.
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