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Michael
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Communicating with surrogacy mother

Surrogacy mother is the woman who will bear your child. The health and life of your future child depends on this woman. Though she will get quite a lot of money for bearing and giving birth to your future child, she may feel some affection for him. So what will you do in such situation? Will you leave your child to her? Will you give her opportunty to communicate with your child in future?

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Michael
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Frankie, you have arizen rather interesting question. Though surrogacy is only a kind of service that a woman is giving to you, I am also afraid that she may not be able to give this child to other people. Though the kid isn't gnetically her, she will carry him or her and give birth to her. And if this situation happenss, it will be quite difficult for me to take the child away from her. But I think I will do it, because it will be my daughter or son.

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Michael
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In order to avoid such situations it will be nice to choose a country where surrogacy is legal and settled by certain laws. There are also lots of scammers who offer their service but actually steal your money. If you want to have a healthy baby, choose and contact a clinic that is able to provide you such service. You will sign a contract that will regulate all legislative aspects of the programme. In additon to this clinics usually have vast bases of women who are ready to become surrogacy mothers. So you will easily find a healthy lady to suit you.

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Michael
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You have really given me quite a lot of interesting and useful information. Thanks greately! :) I also consider that it will be better to find a surrogacy mother through a clinic. Though there are quite a lot of advertisements in the web about it, I don't want to take risks either.

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Michael
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Where surrogacy is concerned, the importance of open and honest communication cannot be stressed enough. A lack of effective communication can often lead to misunderstandings, in turn leading to feelings of dishonesty or distrust. At Surrogate Solutions, we believe communication is key, right from the very beginning; from initially choosing your agency, all the way through your relationships after the baby’s birth. We promote and help you to achieve an open and effective line of communication at all times. Building a relationship based upon mutual trust and effective communication between the agency, Surrogate, and IPs should immediately be top priority. It is equally as important to find a Surrogate who shares similar views on surrogacy with the IPs, as it is that she is both mentally and physically healthy. Sharing a similar outlook greatly helps in making the entire surrogacy process much more enjoyable for everyone involved. Understanding each individual’s personal needs and expectations is the first step to creating this strong match.

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Timberland
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Communicating with surrogacy mother

i think that staying connected after the baby is born is also an important part of the surrogacy journey. Communication plays a big role in fostering and sustaining a relationship with your surrogate. Therefore, it’s important to determine what’s right for you in terms of how often you are in touch with each other. I would like to have weekly Skype sessions or phone calls.

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Moro
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I don’t think that it is good when surrogate mother has the ability to communicate with a child. You never know what person conceive you a child and what is in her head. Maybe she will want to ask more money or maybe she will say that she will not give you the child back. She can also after some time say to you child that she is his or her mother. It will be a great surprise for you and your partner. What do you need these complications for? I think it is unnecessary and it is better not to know either her contact information or to give her yours. Everything should be in secret. It will be better.

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Michael
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If I were you I would use the services of clinic for reproductive medicine. The services of surrogate motherhood are also included into the services they offer. As far as I know they don’t allow surrogate mothers to know the official information about the intended parents. It is done to avoid any complications with money and some additional demands of the surrogate mother. To tell the truth all that process of surrogate motherhood is too complicated for me. That’s why when I am ready to have a child I will ask for help some reliable clinic for reproductive medicine.

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Chris29
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Perhaps, my comment in this topic could be a little bit rough, but I won't give an opportunity to surrogate mother to communicate with my child, when this child will be with us, I mean myself and my partner. I don't have kids yet, but I am planning to have them in the future. Such plans are close enough for coming true. Me and my beloved are ready to have kids. So, in a year, maybe, we are going to choose a woman who will be able to become our surrogate mother. This question worries us a lot, because it's very serious, so we should take it very carefully! I think that such women have to be ready for giving this child to us.

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Loran
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Hey guys))How are you today???Are you ready to have nice talk togrther with me today??I hope yeeeslaughMichael you know,you are more than right here.It is true that the health and life of your future child depends on this woman. Though she will get quite a lot of money for bearing and giving birth to your future child, she may feel some affection for him. I think that it is quite important to find common language with the surrogate mother because of course if you have some disagreements with the surrogate mother of cours she is nervous and of course it will have a negatibe influence to the health of your child!!So that`s why it is important to be in a good relation with her!

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Valeos
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Greetings to you people. How are you!? Previously, I always wondered what it would be great to see my son's surrogate mother. At one time it did not even bother me. Especially when I saw in my son not myself, but someone else. He behaved in a strange way, or it was not natural for him. I had an idea, to get acquainted with a surrogate mother and ask about her character traits and everything like that. But now this idea began to worry me less and less.

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